Creating a Purpose Driven Business | Jeffrey Deckman | On The Homefront

Brief Summary
In this deep-dive episode of The Homefront, Jeff Dudan sits down with Jeffrey Deckman—serial entrepreneur, stage four cancer thriver, and author of Developing the Conscious Leadership Mindset for the 21st Century. Jeffrey unpacks decades of experience building businesses, recovering from failure, and guiding leaders into the modern age of tribal organizational models, conscious leadership, and collaborative influence. It’s a masterclass on evolving leadership in today’s workforce.
Key Takeaways
- From failure comes formation. Jeffrey shares how a business collapse, a $17,000 restart, and stubborn grit led to a 21-year entrepreneurial run.
- Modern leadership is tribal, not top-down. The org chart lies—real organizations function through dynamic tribes, not rigid hierarchies.
- You’re not done until you’re done. Even after burnout, boredom, and confusion, Deckman chose to reinvent rather than retreat.
- Lead with consciousness, not control. The best leaders today act as facilitators, communicators, and collaborators, not dictators.
- Growth happens in tension. Whether in a think tank or conflict-filled meeting, productive friction sharpens ideas and builds resilience.
- Purpose unlocks clarity. When leaders act from love and abundance—not fear or lack—new paths become visible.
Featured Quote
“Live a life that brings you peace and helps other people find theirs.”
TRANSCRIPT
Meet Jeffrey Deckman: Entrepreneur, Author, Conscious Leadership Pioneer
Jeff Dudan (00:02.98)
Good day, everybody. I am Jeff Dutton and we are On the Homefront. As always, this podcast is brought to you by Homefront Brands, simply building the world's most responsible franchise platform, encouraging entrepreneurs to take action to transform their lives, impact communities, and enhance the lives of those they care the most about. All the while, delivering enterprise-level solutions to local business owners out there on the homefront where it counts. So if this sounds like you.
Check us out at HomefrontBrands.com today and start your next chapter of greatness, building your dynasty on the home front. Jeffrey and I will be here looking for you. And today we are honored and excited to have Jeffrey Deckman on the podcast today on the home front with us. Welcome Jeffrey.
jeff (00:53.622)
Thanks, Jeff. I'm happy to be here.
Jeff Dudan (00:55.408)
Awesome. So I will give a little background. So Jeff or Jeffrey? All right. All right, Jeff. Jeff is an international award winning executive and organizational performance consultant, strategist, author, and a trainer. He is the recipient of the 2021 Innovator and Thought Leader of the Year from the International Business Awards for his work around conscious leadership and action and the M3 process, which we're going to get into.
jeff (01:01.975)
Either one. Jeff's fine.
Jeff Dudan (01:24.58)
for leadership and organizational transformation. Based upon his award-winning Amazon bestselling book, Developing the Conscious Leadership Mindset for the 21st Century. Jeff has 45 years of management experience, 40 of which have been as a serial entrepreneur, having built two multi-million dollar companies in the tech sector before becoming a leading consultant on the next evolution of leadership. In addition, he has spent decades studying the lessons of the greatest spiritual teachers from many cultures.
He is a student of consciousness, a Reiki master, and is a stage four cancer survivor. Well, no, you are a stage four cancer thriver. And Jeff is also the creator of the bigger known Principles of Conscious Leadership, an advanced training program for the development of 21st century leaders, and is the founder of the biannual Conscious Leadership Conference. Jeffrey, welcome to the home front.
jeff (02:02.854)
That's right.
jeff (02:18.446)
Thanks, Jeff. Like I said, I'm happy to be here and I love talking about this stuff. And I love who your audience is, entrepreneurs, entrepreneurial people. And I agree with you, they are the, if I can summarize, they're the heart and soul of the community and the economy. And they are underrepresented and underserved. And I really admire the work you're doing and I work to do the same in my own way.
Jeff Dudan (02:22.808)
Well.
Jeff Dudan (02:48.248)
You know, that's a really good point. Just right, come shooting hard right out of the gate with a good point. You know, small business people like myself, as I, as I grew my business, I didn't have access to strategy. I didn't have access to, uh, you know, organizational development and all of these things that had I known those 15 years earlier would have made a big difference in how I led the lives of the employees, employee engagement, and all of those types of things. Your work.
is so aligned with all of the things that I believe that we need and that we practice in building healthy, viable, productive organizations. So really excited to have you on today to talk through the group. Now, before we get into all of that, Jeff, would you care to just share a little bit, maybe go back and tell us a little bit about your story, kind of where you came from and how you grew up?
From Cable Lineman to Serial Entrepreneur: Jeffrey’s Unlikely Origin Story
jeff (03:43.114)
Yeah, I am an unlikely entrepreneur. I'm one of those, I was one of those kids that I did not do well in school. I'm not an academic learner. I spent more time staring outside the window and wishing I was there than up at the blackboard as we used to call it back in the day. I moved around a lot when I was a kid. My father had been in the cable television business since believe it or not, 1951.
one of the first people in the country. So he had a lot of job opportunities and we moved around quite a bit. Went to a couple of middle schools, three high schools and three different states. And as a result, that didn't help my academic consistency either. So because I grew up around the cable television industry, I was around tower workers and linemen and field engineers and they were like cowboys to me. And
I wanted to be a cowboy. So when I got out of high school, I went right into the cable television industry. I was what was called a grunt. And a grunt is a guy that is basically a slave to the lineman. You just did everything that they told you to. And I became a lineman, like I said, tower worker. Ended up becoming a field engineer and oversaw the construction of a couple of large cable systems in North Jersey back in the late 70s, early 80s.
And what happened was I was moving my way up through that corporate pretty quickly and started bumping up against corporate culture, which I was too young and too unskilled to deal with that. And I had a big argument with my boss one day. And I told myself, if I think I know how to run a company better than he does, I should call my own bluff. So I reached out to a gentleman who had a small contracting company at the time, and he was struggling. He was doing work for me.
And I said, would you consider bringing me in as a partner? And because of my reputation in the industry and what it was that I knew, he decided to bring me on. And I didn't have any money. He was probably doing maybe $3,000 a week in revenue. He wired apartments. So he gave me half the company. And his accountant said, George, your company isn't worth anything anyway. So you may as well give the guy half. So he's as motivated as you are to make it work.
Rising, Falling, and Rebuilding with $17K: The Entrepreneur’s Grit Test
jeff (06:07.57)
So that's what he did and we started. And then I got another idea about merging this little company in with another company that did underground construction. And we built that company up to about four and a half million dollars of revenue and 1987 money. We had offices in four states. We're based in Jersey. We had satellite office in Dallas, Texas, Chesapeake, Virginia, and Providence, Rhode Island. And.
that business became too complicated for us to manage. And we knew our trade, but we didn't understand business enough to realize that you build a business with four offices in those locations and that's like having four separate companies. So it became more complex in our abilities to manage it and it crashed. And so there I was married with a two-year-old daughter, a brand new house and another child on the way. And
went bankrupt. So I was sitting on the other side of that saying I have a decision to make, get a job or start another company. And if I would have got a job, I was very hireable. People knew me and I knew that if I took a job, I'd never start another company because of the direction my life was going in and the amount of responsibilities I had. So I decided I would start another company even though I had just crashed one and everything was telling me I didn't know what I was doing.
I just had a sense that I wasn't done being an entrepreneur yet. And I figured if I started a new company and that didn't fail, I could always go get the other job. So one option allowed me to have both options. So I had $17,000 and I ran numbers like crazy and it all said I'd run out of money in about seven or eight weeks. But I thought, well, I'll do it and we'll see what happens at week seven or eight.
Very, very long story short, that company almost went under about probably four or five times and I ended up selling it a week before its 21st birthday to my management team to go off and do what it is that I now do. But I've been on the front lines, I've been used and abused and cast aside and I've had an awesome time doing it, but it was a real challenge.
jeff (08:29.614)
And I've managed to stay self-employed for the last 40 some odd years. And, you know, my dad told me when I started my first company, he said, "'Well, Jeff, if you're gonna work for a jerk, "'it may as well be yourself.'" So I've been working for a jerk for 41 years.
Jeff Dudan (08:41.978)
Ha!
Jeff Dudan (08:45.536)
Oh, man, I'm going to borrow that. That's good. So when you got into these businesses, what was your role in the business? Were you on the sales side, operations? What was your, where did you default to? OK.
jeff (08:50.183)
Yeah.
jeff (08:58.654)
Operations. I've never been a sales guy and I've paid the price for that. But I am a practitioner, I'm an operational guy, leadership, organizational design. You know, my best work is when I can come in, roll my sleeves up and help my client build a company that they wanna build. So, yep, absolutely operations.
Jeff Dudan (09:22.552)
Yeah, you said you were an unlikely entrepreneur, but most of the people on the Homefront podcast are entrepreneurs and they all sound just like that. You know, average or below average student always figured that, you know, you might as well, you know, had an early entrepreneurial experience, had at least one or two failures. And then, I mean, you have to go through it, right? It's, I mean, you learn everything.
jeff (09:43.722)
Yeah. Yeah.
Jeff Dudan (09:49.38)
You know, I've come to understand that pain is one of the greatest gifts that we have because that's when the lessons are so deep that we learned. So going bankrupt, the company going bankrupt, having a two year old at home. I mean, it's like that's Ray Dalio. I mean, if you, if you look at Ray Dalio's principles, I mean, he took a bet on the entire industry and tanked it and had the
you know, borrow $4,000 from his father-in-law to pay his mortgage or his rent or whatever. You know, now they're $16 billion hedge funds. So, well, that's fantastic. What a great story. And then the business that you had for 21 years, you did an employee, what, an employee stock option plan. So that's a great way to exit, by the way, for people that haven't.
jeff (10:15.758)
Yeah.
jeff (10:19.509)
Yeah.
jeff (10:31.394)
Well, actually I didn't. What I did was at about the nine year mark into that company, I ended up hiring three people within about 18 months. And one was a young man who was really, really good in sales, technology sales. What we did is we built large scale computer networks. So we went in and put all the cabling infrastructure and all the networking hardware in.
So I hired a really good sales guy. I hired a woman who became my controller. She was really good with finance and I hired an operations guy. And the operations guy and my controller became so good and so valuable that I ended up giving the operations guy 25% of the company and I gave my controller 7% of the company. And what happened was when they came in, I was doing a million a year.
And Steve, the operations guy said, Jeff, when you add me, we will triple in size in three years. And I laughed at him because it was inconceivable. I'd worked nine years just to try to break a million dollars. And he's coming in saying, we're going to triple that in three? Well, we did because he knew what talent I had and he knew what I was lacking. And he fit right into that. So we went from one million to three million. And then we went from three to five in the next two.
So as I looked at that, I said, you know, before these people came in, I had 100% of a million dollar company that wasn't really making money. So I wanted to reward them and I wanted to lock them in. So I gifted them the percentage of the company. So they were already equity partners when I decided to leave and it made the transition a bit easier.
Jeff Dudan (12:14.444)
Yeah, you know, find the people that you can trust and take them with you. Right. It's all, it's all about the team. So, well, outstanding. So now you're based on the math, 25, 30 years into your career, maybe a little, maybe a little longer than that. And now you say, well, I've learned a lot about growing teams and you'd been, I guess, studying or, or formulating your ideas along the way, how did you transition to what you're doing now?
jeff (12:17.871)
Oh, absolutely. Absolutely.
jeff (12:29.326)
You good? You good?
Walking Away: How Boredom and Soul Misalignment Forced a Career Shift
jeff (12:42.646)
Well, what happened was I realized after 30 years in the telecommunications industry, starting in cable television and then in the data networking, that I was bored to tears. And I had built a management team that really could run the place on its own. But you know, I'm an entrepreneur at heart. I just couldn't go fishing. And I started really getting itchy. And I started... We started having partner...
problems. I mean, these people were my best friends. And when I started getting bored, I wanted to go back in and do operations. And Steve said, No, stay out of operations, you know, when I do a little bit of stuff around finance, and Joyce was like, stay out of that. And I started getting resentful. And I started getting bored. And I just I was in a meeting one time and with them. And I just I kind of heard myself say, you know, I got to get out of here.
And they thought I meant like out of the meeting and what have you, but no, I, I meant I had to leave. So, uh, what I did was, uh, I realized that I had to make a move. Most of the moves in my life weren't based on what I knew I wanted to do. They were based on what I knew I couldn't do anymore. And that's a challenging place because, uh, it really causes you to make some real deeply rooted personal decisions of are you going to sacrifice your happiness?
Are you going to sacrifice your safety in pursuit of your happiness? And are you going to bet on your past or are you going to bet on you and your future? So I'm not saying I'm really talented in that. I could be considered foolish in doing that. But the next couple of weeks, I was really pretty confused because I didn't know what I could do. I had one industry and I couldn't be the president of another telecommunications company. I didn't have...
what I thought was a background that would allow me to go in and be a president of another company. And I was getting pretty stressed out and I remembered something that a spiritual teacher told me of mine once and he said, don't live your life based on questions of fear or lack. Based your, live your life based on questions of love and abundance. And.
Choosing Love and Abundance Over Fear and Lack
jeff (14:59.818)
What I realized I was doing was I was thinking, geez, I can't do this, I can't do that, that doesn't work. Instead of saying, what would I love to do? And the minute I thought, what would I love to do? Then like the clouds parted because that was easy. I went from here, thinking with my head to here thinking from my heart. And when I asked my heart, what would I love to do? The answer came, I would love to help other people like me.
build their businesses with less stress, fewer failures, and less aggravation than what I went through. I would love to serve this community that I'm a part of. And that's what set me on my journey. And nobody knew me as a business consultant. I didn't know how to sell thinking. I mean, I had sold product. I didn't have a reputation. So I actually, for the first two years,
I made my living as a political strategist. I had built political organizations in the state of Rhode Island. So I was fortunate to do that for two years. And then I got enough business going on and just went over into that and struggled for quite a few years. I was invited to be a partner in a think tank in 2000. I sold the company in 2000, left it in 2005, sold it in 2008. But in 2007, I was invited to be a partner in a think tank.
And that was really my journey where what we were doing was looking at what changes were happening, happening societally and within business that were a result of the new millennium 2005 and the advent of the impact of technology and the challenge that the new mentality of the modern workforce was having on traditional leadership models and organizational design models. And that's put me on my journey.
So, you know, the work that I do is I help companies go from traditional command and control to learn how to lead the modern workforce in the modern era with less force and more as a communicator, a collaborator, and a facilitator of human capital.
Jeff Dudan (17:09.7)
So we're going to dig into that before we move on. I just want to touch on a couple of things you said. Number one, you said that once you decided to use love and abundance, that it became clear, the path became more clear. And I think, did you say that there was a mentor or somebody said that to you or a spiritual leader said that to you?
Yeah. So, so many times, so I had a, I had a coach who was the president of Husqvarna North America and he built that company to $530 million over 18 years. And then he became a kind of a Vistage coach and I was with them for nine years. And one of the, one of the greatest men that I've ever had the pleasure to spend time with and he poured into me and so much fundamentally of what I believe now is really thoughts and conversations that we had.
And when I saw I sold my business that I had for 24 years and 11 months in, uh, I guess they didn't want to give me the 25 year watch, but, uh, they, I sold it in 2019 and he said, he said, Jeff, what, now that you have choice, whatever you decide to do, make sure that it aligns deeper with your purpose. Everything that you do, does it align? Is it in alignment?
jeff (18:11.47)
Thanks for watching. Bye.
Jeff Dudan (18:30.116)
And so even this podcast, you know, I, when I've done my on purpose work, I exist to serve by encouraging entrepreneurs. That's what I do. So when I'm, if we're encouraging entrepreneurs here today with what we do, then it's on purpose for me. I'm excited. You're passionate about what you do. We've got people out there that this can help. That's it. It, it, that's, that's all there is, you know, so if this is the time I'm spending, I'm excited about it. So what I want to talk to our listeners about though, is like,
jeff (18:49.708)
Mm-hmm.
Jeff Dudan (18:59.128)
The obvious question that somebody asks you that gives you clarity always comes from the outside. So, and it's a question usually, and that gives you clarity into your thinking. And when you talk to people 20 years down the road, and I say, well, I give credit back to Dave, it's not a lot of stuff. It's the few things that he said that resonated with me, like align with your purpose.
that just makes such a big impact. So if you don't have mentors or if your head's down in your business and you're up to your arms in it every day, man, you have to find a way to get outside of that and get around some other people that are thinking about, maybe they're just a little bit ahead of you in their entrepreneurial journey or their business journey because they can speak into you and really inform your journey with their journey. So I wanted to tap on that. All right. So now,
You're in this think tank and you mentioned a couple of trends. Are there any other trends that you have observed here in the last three to five years that are just really critical in terms of how the workforce engages at work, how we need to engage people overall? Obviously COVID accelerated lots of trends. You know, oh, everybody's going to work from home. Oh, now we can work from home forever. Oh, everybody come back into the office now. So it's...
There's this back and forth of the productivity discussion. Is it more productive, less productive? Is it good for people to be isolated in that way and staring at a monitor all day? All of those questions. What else has the think tank really observed or identified that maybe people wouldn't think about?
jeff (20:33.998)
Mm-hmm.
jeff (20:48.01)
Well, one of the biggest things that I got out of that was, and I spend a lot of time talking about this, is that the model of our organization is...
Why Org Charts Lie: The Rise of Tribal Organizational Design
jeff (21:07.586)
basically tells a lie. And the model is the org chart. And the lie that it tells is that organizations are orderly. They're like assembly lines. They're mechanized. It gives an industrial age mechanized representation of the organization. And if you view your organization in that way,
You're going to, you know, the lens that we see things is the, it determines the way in which we engage them. So mechanized lens basically says organizations are like a Henry Ford assembly lines, you know, they should operate that way. They should be very hierarchical and that if the organization is a machine, the people are tools. And if you see people as tools, you treat them.
very differently than if you see the human in the human. My view of an organization is that an organization is an organism. It's a living, breathing, thinking, creating organism made up of a whole bunch of living, breathing, thinking, creating people. And when you start looking at the organization that way,
You go, well, wait a minute, what's the model that I have? What's the organizational model? If it's not the org chart, what is it? And what it is is the tribe. Organizations are a tribe of tribes. Finance is a tribe. Engineering is a tribe. Construction is a tribe. Marketing, sales, they're all different tribes and are operating within a bigger tribe. So.
With that tribal dynamic, when you start looking at your organization through the lens of the tribe, you start seeing things that were invisible to you before, and you start understanding things that you never saw before. And those things are the power of tribal dynamics, the existance and the influence of tribal leaders who may or may not show up on your chart.
Sales Tribes vs. Success Tribes: Managing Competing Cultures Inside a Company
Jeff Dudan (23:23.28)
Hmm.
jeff (23:23.594)
the power of peer pressure, positive or negative. Tribalism is in our DNA. And tribes are not only the oldest model that we've ever had for human collaboration, also by far the most effective. It's because of our ability to tribe and to marshal.
collective resources and tap into the collective genius of the individuals, their talents, their aptitudes, their experiences, et cetera, that have really allowed us to go from nomadic to the agricultural age, to the industrial age, to the now knowledge and information age. It's all done by the effective collaboration and sharing of information and labor by people. When the industrial age came in, mechanization and repetition
and efficiency became the altars that everybody prayed to. And it was, you can't argue how effective it was. And there was a certain level of human consciousness that that fit. Workers were okay just putting their head down and the boss was way up there. And the current generations we have now, we've got the five most independent minded generations, literally in the history of humanity in the workforce.
None of them want to be told what to do without having input. All of them want to have say. You know, older guys like me, I'm a boomer. So I want that because I've earned that. I deserve that. I have a lot to say. And hopefully some of it's valuable. Next generation down the same way. But also the newest generations are coming in with an expectation that they're listened to because they kind of determined how they were going to be raised. The kids today tell their parents a lot about how they're going to be raised. So you've got these.
Jeff Dudan (25:12.385)
Yes, they do.
jeff (25:13.482)
incredibly empowered, independent minded thinkers, and the leadership models we have are not effective in that space. So as leaders, we have to get ahead of that curve, understand that consciousness, and develop new ways of engaging those people so they become intrinsically motivated to follow our direction instead of just our directions. That's the...
Jeff Dudan (25:38.56)
Isn't that fascinating? Isn't it? It's just so I'm just absolutely fascinated because this is, this is so much aligned with what I, what I talk about when I go do keynotes or workshops for companies.
Our natural state is tribal. That's how we move around in society. It's always been that way, and we always look for those groups. Now, one thing I observed is that there's different tribal norms needed within an organization, depending on what the area does. So for example, we're a sales organization.
And we happen to be in a particularly competitive sales environment. Some of the best sellers in the country operate in our industry. It is a it is a high impact sale. I mean, by that, it's you're not buying a chiclet here or even a car. You're buying you're you're impacting people's lives for 10 years with two, five year renewal. So, you know, it's a it's a mutual evaluation process because we want to get the best fit. But we're also competing for the best people. And we really want the best people to join our team.
Now, so maybe that's our hunting tribe mentality. And, you know, and they're out to hunt and compete and to kill, and it's a different mindset. And then we kind of have our farming tribe, which is franchisee success. So now this department over here is about empathy and incremental growth and adult education and coaching.
jeff (26:56.185)
and then
Jeff Dudan (27:16.844)
and being some psychological things, de-stressing people that are maybe having their first entrepreneurial experience. So there's tribal norms there. So what I've said is we have to separate those tribes because if those two tribes meet at the river and they're looking across the river at each other, the sales team is gonna kill the other ones. They're gonna, you know, and the other people just, but yet we have one culture here.
So trying to find that middle ground through a set of values and make everybody appreciate and understand the differences, but yet let people optimize in the areas that they're in is interesting. And this command and control or chart top down do this. I think it is so restrictive to create, particularly to creatives. So now we're in this time. I don't know if you've ever read how Google works. It's an incredible book about
jeff (28:08.575)
Mm-hmm.
Jeff Dudan (28:14.184)
how Google, you know, how they hired and how they did what they did. And what stuck out to me the most in it was the fact that they hired creatives because they wanted people at every position that was going to think differently and think creatively and think abundantly and be very curious about things. And now what's happened with AI doing so much of the blocking and tackling that can be done not only in
writing and ads and marketing, but also encoding and many other areas, the creatives become more important because it's about the question and not about the answer.
Why Disagreements are a Gift in Knowledge-Based Companies
jeff (28:53.182)
Yeah, you know, we are in an age where we're in a knowledge age. So we have to create organizations that reward creativity, that foster creativity, innovation, free flowing of discussion. You know, when I was in the, when I was in the think tank, one of the things that I realized was in a knowledge company, like we're in a knowledge economy. So we better build knowledge based.
based companies, that disagreements are opportunities for education. When there's a disagreement, there's a lot of things that are going to be learned in that. And instead of seeing it as a confrontation, which activates the fight or flight syndrome within our mind and gets egos going and all that type of stuff, instead of seeing conflicts,
or disagreements as conflicts, I see them as conversations. And let's keep that conversation going because you feel passionately about what you do for good solid reasons. And I assume that and I respect that, but so does the other person. So can we hold the ground where that conversation can take place so we can sort out what is the best idea for the moment? And chances are,
everybody's going to learn something, even if it's only how to turn a conflict into a productive conversation. So, and that's what we have to do. We have to constantly be educating these teams to be more, uh, more collaborative, more resilient. And it's not about being woke and it's not about, you know, taking care of snowflakes that is playing to the lowest common denominator that'll take you out in business, business as a contact support.
Uh, so, you know, it's a, and it's tackle football the whole way. So you have to find that, that middle ground between letting people express themselves and get the ideas, but also moving the question forward. Uh,
Jeff Dudan (30:56.076)
Yeah, I think it was Collins. Yeah, I agree with you, business is absolutely full contact. And we've got one young manager here who likes to remind us that Jim Collins said that an organization's capacity and velocity is directly related to the number of brutal conversations that you're willing to have.
jeff (31:15.381)
I'm sorry.
Jeff Dudan (31:16.468)
And that is like my biggest challenge in life. And my is that I was so conflict diverse and I was just trying to make everybody get along and trying to smooth everything out and just keep things going. And to a point it served you in building an organization where people felt safe.
and they didn't feel like they would ever be just fired randomly for things. They knew that they knew that if they tried to make a play and it didn't work out, that it wouldn't be punitive because they tried to make a play and they had good intent inside of it. I did. I was punitive around people with bad intent, you know, dishonesty, things like that. That's those are the types of things where I never hesitated to really make, you know, our cultural norms known. But.
jeff (31:54.208)
Oh sure.
Jeff Dudan (32:03.468)
You know, you're in a meeting, you've got a bunch of people that you respect. Somebody throws a bad idea out there and everybody's like, hmm, hmm, okay. Well, I guess, I guess we can do that. Now somebody, yeah, I said, um, I don't use profanity on the podcast, but, um, I actually wrote a little note in my, one of the, the greatest thing ever said to me was by a gentleman, I was about halfway through my building, my company. And he looked at me and he said, that's the stupidest F and thing I've ever heard.
after I said something and I look back at that as the greatest thing ever said to me because he was the first person that ever said that to me and he was right. And because of that conversation that we had immediately following telling me that it was a stupidest I just said the stupidest thing you'd ever heard. We decided that we needed to build a call center and which was one of our secret sauces in franchising a lot of franchise companies didn't have call centers. They didn't want to take the risk and dropping a franchisee's call or making a mistake and having that liability.
But to us, it was so clear that it would give us so much lift that, you know, I was like, well, we can't do it for all these reasons. And it was just bad reasons, you know? So, yeah, I mean, brutal, brutal facts, confronting brutal facts, having candid conversations, definitely part of a healthy organization. And of course, everybody, you all, you all.
you know, how you discern whether people are chasing their own motives or chasing the motives that are in the best interest of the company. That's always a trait.
The Balloon Test & The Perturbation: Think Tank Exercises That Build Better Ideas
jeff (33:34.262)
You know, we did two things at the think tank that forever changed how I approach many things. One was that we would, one of us would have an idea, there were four of us. And we would formulate the idea, bring it together. You know what, and we always love our ideas. If we didn't love our ideas, we wouldn't promote them, right? And they're like our babies and we're all creatives, right? So what-
what our practice was, was when you had an idea, you were ready to put out there something you were going to do or whatever. You'd float it out and it was the job of the other three to try to shoot it out of the air. And that's what the thing was, you'd float your hot air balloon up there and everybody else is trying to take legitimate shots at it, just to see, is it a valid idea, right? Because we'd rather blow it out of the sky.
Jeff Dudan (34:16.91)
Yeah.
jeff (34:31.378)
in that safety of that room than out in the marketplace. The other thing that we did, so that really got, really trained me how to love my idea, but not personalize it. It's gotta be best idea wins. I've gotta have the maturity and the level of consciousness to have my idea looked at, twisted at, and otherwise I shouldn't float it. The other thing that we did was we would take
We were doing exercise, I'll give you an example. We were looking to change our logo. There were four logos that came in and that can be a maddening discussion. And pick the logo you like, pick the logo you don't like, which I did. So my one partner is from Australia. And he said, okay, Jeff, I want you to sell us on the value of the logo you don't like.
And I said, no. And he said, yes. And so it actually got so hot that we had to take a break for lunch. Yep. Because I said, look, there's a reason I don't like it, and I'm locked down. Because I wanted this thing. I don't want that thing. Why am I going to promote that thing? It would cost me this thing. So over lunch, I calmed down, and I reminded myself what I was doing.
Jeff Dudan (35:35.948)
Really?
jeff (35:51.158)
And I looked at this thing and I actually found two or three things that I legitimately liked about it. And I came back and I did a pitch on why why we should pick it. And at the end of it, he said and he had that Australian accent. He goes, hey, mate, you know what I just did to you? And I said, other than like, you know, piss me off. And he said, that's called a perturbation. And I said, what is a perturbation? He said a perturbation is an exercise you put someone through that perturbs them, that generates.
Jeff Dudan (36:08.848)
Huh.
jeff (36:21.722)
unique thinking. And I looked at that and what it showed me was, and we ended up picking a logo that was a variation of the four, but what it showed me is you can always find something and something that's worthy of value. So sometimes you use it, sometimes you don't, but to have the discipline and the maturity to be able to look at something you don't like, to see what is in there that you might like, was a real good discipline.
Jeff Dudan (36:35.92)
Hmm.
jeff (36:47.142)
And, you know, as entrepreneurs, we have to be thorough. We can't fall in love with our ideas. We have to allow people to take shots at them. And we have to be open to seeing something positive and something that we don't like just to make sure there isn't something in there that could really benefit us.
Jeff Dudan (37:02.42)
Yeah. So let's shift gears, Jeff, to your work today. So who do you help with this, and how do you do it?
What Jeffrey Does Today: Helping Leaders Upgrade Culture and Org Design
jeff (37:14.935)
I help entrepreneurs, business owners. Now they could be somebody who's thinking about, should I go into a business? I help them on that level from a coaching standpoint. I also go into small to medium sized companies, typically companies of maybe 25 up to, I've worked with companies with 500 people in them. Mostly owner operated so I can get with decision makers.
And what I do is I focus in two areas to be able to help an organization move to what they know their next level is. I have to find out what is holding them back. And I look in two areas. I look in leadership. I help them to understand the new leadership methodologies and make them real for them. And I also look at organizational design. So much leadership looks at developing the leader, but ignores the design of the organization that the leader has to operate into.
So, you know, the analogy I use, it's like training a top gun fighter pilot and then putting them in a World War I biplane. They're gonna get shot out of the air. So you have to advance your organization so that it can handle the new creativity, have the new communication networks that you have to have and has a hierarchy that supports communication, collaboration, and facilitation. So that's what I do. Work with the leadership team, help them.
get moved themselves to the next level, and then help them clean up their organization, make it more fluid and agile.
Jeff Dudan (38:42.276)
So typically, so you go in, you make these recommendations and then do you do an engagement with them to help them manage the transition and coach them along the way? Or is it, how long are you in with the client?
jeff (38:54.634)
Yeah.
Uh, you know, anywhere from, I tell most clients, if you're going to hire me for a day, hire me for three months, because that's about what it takes for me to come in and, you know, move the needle for you. But a lot of my clients I've had for two, three, four years, because once I help them, uh, get them to the next space and I teach what I do, because my job is to make you, uh, self sustainable. Uh,
And that way, you know, as you start building your company, your challenges are more complex. So you need me for the next level. And so yeah, I roll up my sleeves. I'm not a report writer. I mean, I write a report, but I don't come in and make recommendations and leave. I come in, my best clients are the ones that want me to work beside them. I never forget whose company it isn't. I'm here to serve you, help you build your dream.
Jeff Dudan (39:46.042)
Right.
jeff (39:49.666)
And as long as we can collaborate, work together, we're gonna do some really, really powerful things. But I always look to help you build what you want. And I roll up my sleeves and get in there and do it with you.
Jeff Dudan (40:02.616)
Nice. And then when did you write your book, which was developing the conscious leadership mindset for the 21st century? When did that come out?
Conscious Leadership in Practice: Inside the Book That Guides Modern Leaders
jeff (40:11.106)
I wrote that in the late fall of 2018, and it came out in January and February of 2019.
Jeff Dudan (40:22.448)
Okay. And then what, what, what if, is it, is it tactical and practical in nature? Who would be somebody that would benefit from reading the book?
jeff (40:33.346)
This book is basically a tool that a leader can use to become more self-aware and elevate their leadership consciousness. You know, I talk about, you know, there's basically two parts of everybody. There's their ego, and then there's that inner elder. And the ego is a lot of what's, you know, day to day out in the trenches doing the thing or thinking our reactions, et cetera. But inside of us, we all have a very wise entity.
So what this book does is this book helps you to look inward, to understand, and to become more familiar with that wise entity, so that your level of consciousness is elevated, which helps you to become a much better leader. It's designed to be a workbook. Each page is a chapter. And the chapter makes a very specific point, and it goes through an arc. It focuses on who you are as a leader and how you think and what's important to you.
Then it starts giving another view of the organization beyond the org chart. And then it goes into some very specific methods you can use on a day-to-day basis. So it's designed. It's not a novel. You can sit down and read the whole thing within about an hour and a half, two hours, get a dose of it, but then go back and take it kind of a step at a time and work through the various exercises that are in there.
Jeff Dudan (41:58.884)
Sounds like anybody who's interested in becoming a better leader, building bigger, more effective companies, raising their leadership lid, should get this book and work through it. There's tons of stuff that we've already talked about today that has landed on me, particularly the stuff around tribalism and the thinking around that. Because when you started talking about that, I'm like, all right, are we heading towards matric organization? Are we heading towards, you know, teams or nodes or some of these other?
organizational structures that you see coming out from time to time. And I've never really been able to articulate clearly, you know, how our, how our organization really works in reality. Like it works in, in teams and collaboration between tribes of people that are, that are necessary to one another to accomplish a goal.
jeff (42:37.07)
Yeah.
jeff (42:47.158)
You know, and I studied a lot of those, and some of them are just too mechanical, you know, or they're put out by software engineers, you know. And the thing is, is that, you know, you can have various different departments, and if you show up as a valued trading partner from one tribe to another, you know, the Silk Road was between the Middle East
Jeff Dudan (42:53.52)
Mm.
jeff (43:16.698)
and China. And they didn't speak the same language. They were completely different cultures, but they built a very powerful economic engine there because one side had something that the other needed. So they were intrinsically motivated to work together. So when your sales department meets with your farming department, the leaders of those two tribes have to have a level of consciousness.
where they know that the rest of my team may not like the rest of your team because they're very different thinkers, but we understand the value of each other and we're gonna operate that way. And that's what I insist out of any leader that I suggest be promoted, that they have that mindset where they are collaboration because nobody's bigger than their company. So each tribe has to work, yes, in support of themselves and be advocates for themselves, but not at the expense of the overall tribe.
Tribal Wisdom Meets Modern Business: Lessons for Fast-Growth Organizations
Jeff Dudan (44:13.36)
Couldn't agree more. And Jeffrey, this has been really incredible. This content is something that every organization needs to review and consider, especially if you're a fast growing organization or if you aspire to be. How can people reach out to you, get the book, follow your content? What's the best way to get in touch with you? Jeff Deckman.
jeff (44:35.066)
Well, you can go to my website. It's JeffreyDekman.com. You can, R-E-Y, yes sir. And you can email me at Jeffrey at JeffreyDekman.com. You know, you go to my website. I've got a whole thing on resources there. It'll link you to my YouTube channel. And one of the things that I wanna, I really wanna express here is that the thing about this work is,
Jeff Dudan (44:40.544)
And that's R-E-Y, correct? All right.
jeff (45:04.182)
The more people learn about it, the more they realize how much they already know about it. It is so intuitive. I said tribe to you and right away you were like, boom. Oh, I got that. I talk about, you know, various things and it's like you just realize, oh yeah, I knew this. I just never applied it in the business environment because the mechanized model wouldn't allow for it. Today's world, we have to see the human in the human. We have to tap into the collective genius of the group.
We have to mobilize that energy and we have to figure out ways to do it. And the work that I've done, everything that I've thought about and I've written about, I've applied it in real world circumstances so I know it works before I ever tried to teach it to anybody.
Jeff Dudan (45:47.636)
Well, we're a big proponent here at Homefront Brands of human centered design and building systems and processes around the needs and the capabilities of people. And so this translates well to everything that we do. Jeff, if you had one sentence to make an impact in someone else's life, and you had one opportunity to do that, anything you care to share along that regard?
jeff (46:09.838)
Oh boy, yeah. Live a life that brings you peace and helps other people find theirs.
Jeff Dudan (46:21.048)
Now, that's a beautiful sentence. Perfect. Unprompted. We can edit out the short pause, but that was fantastic. Thank you so much. Jeff, it's been incredible having you on today on behalf of everybody on the home front. Thanks for being here.
jeff (46:25.602)
Hahaha.
jeff (46:36.462)
Thank you, appreciate it.
Jeff Dudan (46:38.08)
Yes, sir. And as always, this broadcast has been brought to you by Homefront Brands, simply building the world's most responsible franchise platform and encouraging entrepreneurs to take action and transform their lives. If this sounds like you today, check us out at HomefrontBrands.com and start your next chapter of greatness, building your dynasty on the home front. And Jeff and I will be here looking for you. Thank you.
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