Faith, Football, and Business | Dr. Jason Carthen | On The Homefront

Brief Summary
From childhood homelessness to the NFL, from being lost in depression to becoming one of America’s top executive coaches, Dr. Jason Carthen has lived the full arc of transformation. In this deeply moving episode, Jeff Dudan sits down with the former New England Patriot, bestselling author, and leadership expert to discuss destiny, discipline, and building a legacy through service. This episode is more than motivation—it’s a blueprint for living and leading with purpose.
Key Takeaways
- Leadership starts with authenticity: The most effective leaders are real, vulnerable, and consistent—whether on the field or in the boardroom.
- Your legacy begins with a ripple: A single moment of encouragement can echo through generations—Jason calls this “speaking life.”
- Hardship can forge high performers: Jason’s upbringing—homelessness, incarceration of his mother, and never knowing his father—built the resilience that powered his football and leadership journey.
- Self-leadership is non-negotiable: Great leaders never stop growing. If you’re not developing yourself, you’ll hurt the people you’re supposed to serve.
- Toxic leadership causes lasting trauma: Coaches and managers who lead through fear or ego create psychological scars that ripple into families and businesses.
- You don’t need to reach everyone—just someone: Jeff shares how even one smile, compliment, or conversation can shift a life trajectory.
Featured Quote
“Speak life to live a legacy.”
— Dr. Jason Carthen
TRANSCRIPT
Introducing Dr. Jason Carthen: From NFL to Executive Coaching
Jeff Dudan (00:00.701)
We'll kick it off.
Dr. Jason Carthen (00:01.75)
Don't read that whole thing, man. No, that thing is huge. Just pull out some stuff. We can talk about it.
Jeff Dudan (00:04.356)
No?
Jeff Dudan (00:09.234)
Alright, well, I'll do it. I'll do it.
Jeff Dudan (00:15.161)
All right, listeners, I am Jeff Duden and we are on the home front. And as always, this podcast is brought to you by home front brand, simply building the world's most responsible franchise platform. And today we have with us Dr. Jason Carthen. Welcome Dr. Carthen.
Dr. Jason Carthen (00:34.53)
Hey, good to be with you, Jeff.
Jeff Dudan (00:37.277)
Always, always a pleasure. It's been a minute and I look forward to catching up with you over the next hour. Jason is recognized as one of the top executive coaches in the United States. The leadership linebacker. And there's obviously a story behind that. He is a former professional football player with the world champion, New England Patriots. He's been inducted into the business and leadership hall of fame. And he's an international speaker, bestselling author and media personality. And.
philanthropist. With a personal mission to motivate and inspire individuals, Jason has helped shape over half a million successful leaders, managers, and employees. Welcome, Dr. Karthen.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:17.57)
Hey, good to be with you. Like I said, Jeff, I'm looking forward to diving in and having just a good conversation today.
Jeff Dudan (01:24.397)
Yeah, awesome. Well, thank you again for taking the time to be on with us and you have so much great content and life experiences to share. I wonder if we can't start at the beginning and go back and share just a little bit about where you grew up and how you grew up.
Growing Up in Crisis: Homelessness, Incarceration, and a Turning Point
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:42.926)
Sure, well, just in the interest of time, that would have taken us a long time. But what I would love to be able to share is that there was a transformation. I think anyone in the listening audience would benefit from just understanding that we all start somewhere. And at the end of the day, with a certain level of drive, what I like to call discipline, you can make it where you would like to be. And I'm not.
shy about sharing my faith. My faith also helps me to be able to move throughout life and do some of the things. And that was very beneficial to me, Jeff, because at the very beginning, I had it difficult. And that's probably, some people would say that's putting it lightly, but I grew up in a broken home. My mother was incarcerated. Never knew my father. And so that was a little difficult to say the least.
But research shows that when you're a young person, you're very resilient. And I had an opportunity to walk that thing out and demonstrate that resilience. There were some days I was homeless. There were other days that I didn't really know what was gonna happen with me. So I had to develop resolve and before I knew what resolve was. And there were a lot of challenges, like I said, but at the end of the day, one day changed my life.
And that was a day when I was walking through the hallways, Jeff, and a teacher saw me and said to me essentially, like, you know, they could tell something was going on. And they said to me like, hey, everything good. And I'm thinking, no, but one thing that you learn at that age, you don't tell everybody everything or else your situation can change tremendously. And I said, no, you know, everything's good. Just moving through life, doing whatever.
And this person said to me, hey, you look like you got some size on you and I'd love for you to come out and play some ball. And I said, play some ball. Like what, you know, what is that gonna entail? Because man, I'm just trying to struggle to live at that point, Jeff. I wasn't even thinking about anything else. And he said, you know, you know, you get a chance to run around and hit people. And I said, hit people? I said, okay, sign me up. It was like, I got all this pent up aggression. I was like, let's go for it.
Dr. Jason Carthen (04:07.526)
And that was the birth of really not only my sports career, but just a better understanding that I could weave the tapestry of my life if I had intentionality, if I became focused on what I wanted to do and not become distracted. And that laid a foundation that I am still building upon to this very day.
And Jeff, I don't know if you want to elaborate anymore, ask another specific question, but a lot happened. Go ahead.
Jeff Dudan (04:33.413)
I have a question about...
Jeff Dudan (04:38.989)
I do. I do have a question. I do have a question. So one of my favorite questions to ask is, other than immediate family member, who has made the biggest impact to you?
in your life. So thinking back to that time, you know, you, you didn't come to intention, intentionality yourself. You were, I mean, we, we can only, we can only start to work with the things that are presented to us and the experiences that we have and the exposure that we have. So, you know, you grew up in this tough situation, like so many young people do.
And at some point, was it a coach? Was it another parent? Was it a teacher? What started giving you the clues that you could weave together a different life, maybe a life that was different than anything you had seen up to that point?
The Ripple Effect: How One Encouraging Word Can Shape Generations
Dr. Jason Carthen (05:33.902)
Sure, and you know, again, that's a great question. Essentially, it was that teacher slash coach. When they took a moment to what I like to say, speak life to me, I mean, that's one of my brands, I speak life enterprises, you know, at the end of the day, they took a moment to tell me there was more. They took a moment to care, and in so doing, they have created a ripple effect.
Jeff Dudan (05:46.514)
Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (06:00.77)
because everybody that I've touched, whether it's the different countries that I go to, whether it's the corporations I go into, whether it's the one-to-one coaching that I provide, when that individual said something to me, they created a ripple effect that would last into decades. And that changed everything for me. But that, and I believe this, and hopefully, anyone that's hearing me.
Right now, we understand this, that was at that stage, but the mentoring, the speaking into my life, all of that stuff still continues to occur. I mean, in business, I've had mentors. In life, pastoral influences, I could just go on and on. But what happens, it's almost like a, how would I put this? When I talk about that ripple effect.
You may think it's not a big deal when you say something to someone. You may think, well, maybe they'll listen to me, maybe they won't. But if you take the risk to do it, you don't know just the impact long-term. And that's what Destiny Focus is all about, when you and I talk about that. That's what it's all about. And that person back then doing that really pushed me to be where I'm at.
and my business mentors, you know, one of the executives, he's retired now, but one of the executives of one of the largest companies in the United States, I know we're talking $60 billion company and continuing to excel, always did well. I remember coming into his office, beautiful office, you know, beautiful walls, wood, all this, I had never seen anything like that, CEO, but he's just a regular guy. I mean, he was a regular guy.
And when he talked to me, it was like, wow. He had very simple concepts, but those concepts taught me, one, to be real, be authentic, be who you are, no matter what station you're at in life, no matter how much money. I mean, this guy made a ton of money. But the reality was he didn't act like it. We could just sit and get a bite to eat. And I'm talking when I was young.
Dr. Jason Carthen (08:22.774)
You know, I've been friends with him now for probably 20, 30 years now. You know, that's how long it's been. And just understanding that ripple effect that you can have, as long as you maintain humility, walk that thing out, as long as you know that you don't have all the answers, and when you're speaking life to someone, they may accept it, they may reject it, but as long as you said something to them, you know, it may stick.
Jeff Dudan (08:29.31)
Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (08:52.722)
And that stuff can have just decades long impact if you're intentional with it. Hopefully that answers your question.
The Power of Speaking to Young People—Even When It’s Uncomfortable
Jeff Dudan (09:01.077)
It does. And I'd like to share an experience that I had. And I don't have the speaking career that you have, but I've started to do a lot more of it. And at some point over the last few years, I've gotten very comfortable. And it doesn't matter if it's 5000 people or three, it doesn't matter the size of the room or tell it whatever it is to the medium, whatever it is, except for speaking to kids.
And now if they're on a team I'm coaching, right, I'm good with it because I know that I've got them for the season and we have this coach relationship and that's good. But man, when I go into a group of like high schoolers, like I don't know that I can get them. And if they don't care, they're not good at hiding it. You know? And so like, so my daughter asked me to come speak to Young Life at their high school before they had, they would go and do Young Life before school.
Dr. Jason Carthen (09:31.97)
Thank you.
Dr. Jason Carthen (09:41.975)
Mm-hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (09:48.034)
Right.
Dr. Jason Carthen (09:54.071)
Mm-hmm.
Jeff Dudan (09:58.253)
and 30 something hundred kids in the school. So it's a big school. It wasn't a big room or anything like that, but I was really struggling to figure out like, what is the message that I wanna, how do I relate to these kids without patronizing them, without, you know, how do I really connect with these kids? And I don't know whether I did or I didn't, but the last thing that I said, and I remember this, and I don't think I've ever said it another time in speaking to another group was, as you leave here today,
and you go out into this class with these 3000, this school with these 3000 other kids, I challenge you to speak positively to somebody you've never spoken to by giving them a compliment and to smile at people that you've never smiled at before. Because that little impact, that little contribution that you make, I mean, it could, you never know.
Dr. Jason Carthen (10:44.802)
Mm-hmm.
Jeff Dudan (10:53.009)
what that just little bit of effort is gonna do for that person, how they're feeling that day, what connection you're gonna have. And that's what you're saying is this, it's like a ripple on a pond. And our lives are just these things. And how big do you want the ripples to be? How big of an impact do you wanna make? Maybe a smile is just a little pebble, but it might be a smile to somebody that really needs it that day.
Dr. Jason Carthen (10:58.177)
Mm-hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (11:17.994)
Yeah, absolutely. Everything you just shared, you know, I think at the end of the day, you have to take a risk and that's what you did. And whoever's going to pick it up, as I shared earlier, they'll pick it up. You know, if not, that's okay too. Because one thing I try to do, and I'm not always good at it, but one thing that I try to do is remember how I was at certain ages and stages of my life. That helps me to relate to people.
Jeff Dudan (11:26.376)
Mm.
Jeff Dudan (11:32.434)
Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (11:47.862)
better. And I remember life was a blur at certain ages, you know, so I just take all that into consideration and be the best Jeff you can be. Be authentic. I'm telling you, so many people that try and be somebody else or they have that imposter syndrome and they think, oh, you know, are they gonna want to hear me? And this goes from, you know, whether I'm speaking to young people.
all the way up to CEOs, or doctors or nurses, whatever their venue may be that they brought me in to speak to someone. And I had to let it go, because at the end of the day, I think about Colossians 3 and 23. I'm not doing it for them. I'm doing it for the Lord at the end of the day. And that helps me, because we as adults, we as flawed humans, we have baggage.
And when we get up in front of people, if we're not careful, all that baggage will get unpacked if we're not disciplined and we're not just being authentic and trying to share something that's gonna encourage them. Cause it's not about us. People show up for different reasons. And whoever brought you in, brought you in for a different reason. Whether it was your daughter, but it had to be approved. So whether administration said, yes, he can come on in, whatever it is.
But one thing that also helps me is always remember what's in it for me, not me, the audience. They're always asking, like, why are you here? The whole thing is what's in it for me? And so I try to cater to that. They don't care about my situation, my stories. They want to be able to see a little bit of themselves in what I'm going to share. And just like you, when you said, hey, encourage someone.
The Locker Room and Leadership: Where Trauma Meets Transformation
Jeff Dudan (13:23.4)
Right.
Dr. Jason Carthen (13:42.026)
I challenge you, do this today. They probably say, well, that's scary. Mr. Duden, I don't know if I wanna do that. I got this reputation to uphold, whatever it is. But when you suggest something like that, it gives them a potential to step outside of their comfort zone, to challenge, and maybe change a life at the end of the day.
Jeff Dudan (14:06.745)
Yeah, and if you're living a life of service and you're up in front of a room, you don't have to reach everybody. Maybe it's not for everybody, but I mentioned I had spoke at Liberty University last week and there was five kids, five young adults, students who came up to me after and said that really made an impact on me.
And I just wanted to thank you for doing that. I'm really inspired by what you had to say there. It's right what I needed to hear right now. And like, look, maybe it's just those five. Five out of 500, but like, if it's five, then it's worth it. Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (14:41.879)
Excellent.
Mm-hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (14:48.994)
That's right, that's it. And that's the attitude. As long as you keep that attitude, Jeff, that you're gonna continue to be golden. Just do it.
Jeff Dudan (14:56.857)
Yeah, absolutely. So Dr. Karthin, then you put the football pads on in high school. And then how did, was football the vehicle for you at that point in your life going forward?
Dr. Jason Carthen (15:07.456)
Mm-hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (15:15.802)
It was, you know, with one caveat, when I started playing football, really the whole sports thing was opened up to me. You know, I started playing tennis, man. I played basketball. I went to the city championships in tennis, played a lot of good sports. It was like, and the reason why I make that point is because it was the discipline, the camaraderie.
Jeff Dudan (15:36.061)
Yeah?
Dr. Jason Carthen (15:43.986)
All those different things that even in organizations, you want, and there's so much overlap, so much overlap between the two, whether it's corporate or nonprofit or civic, whatever it may be, when you think about sports and many of the analogies, there's so much overlap. And so for me, yes, that started that journey, but I wasn't just relegated to one thing, but then I started to realize I needed to specialize if I was gonna get a scholarship.
And great things started happening, man. I became just one of the most heavily recruited athletes in all the country. I had a scholarship offers all over. And when I started in college, I just showed out, man. I mean, I think back on it now and I was under grace because really I should have been a statistic and I wasn't and great things took.
place and when I had an opportunity to go to college, one thing that I knew and I said to myself that I was not gonna do, I was not going to miss this opportunity. I was not gonna squander it. I was not gonna throw it away. And so when I went to college, I just really just dove into the books and we all know it's no secret.
When you go to college, it's a lot of partying, it's a lot of hanging out, a lot of crazy stuff that happens. And man, I just try to stay above all that. I tried to stay above all that so much so, my boys would say, man, you never wanna have fun, man. Why you always, why you always going back to the dorm? Why you study it? I said, man, if you knew where I came from, you know I'm not gonna mess this up. Yeah, it's a done deal. No.
Why College Was “Game Time”: Discipline Over Distraction
Jeff Dudan (17:29.605)
Yeah, you don't want to go back. You don't want to go back. Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (17:33.334)
That's right. There was no way I was trying to go back and I wound up finishing college, man, at three years. Three years. I went to summer school every year. I worked. And it was just, it was game time for me. It really was. It was game time.
Jeff Dudan (17:48.829)
What does a college football locker room teach you about leadership?
Dr. Jason Carthen (17:54.158)
Couple of things, and this is, you know, it may be kind of raw, but it taught me how I did not want to lead. That was the first thing, and I think we all need that. I think at the end of the day, if we're honest, we need to see what I call, and what I've written about, is the dark side of leadership. I think when you have dictatorial leadership, I think when you have leaders that are leading out of a place of lack, and I'll say lack because they miss some things, or they don't have some things, or.
they haven't matured fully in some areas, they bring that mess. And if they don't have someone leading them, then they're left to their own devices and they have to engage in self leadership. And many times, and I've written about this, many times they choose not to. If people can get away with a certain type of leadership style, if they're more transactional in nature, you see the body bags behind them in their interactions. They're not emotionally intelligent.
They're just looking at people as a means to an end. And if you think about Frederick Taylor back in the 1920s, 1918, 1920s, and scientific management, the whole thing was you can be replaced, you don't matter. If you don't perform, then you have to go. And that damages people. It doesn't give them a chance to thrive. It does not give them a chance to reach their full potential.
And so I have a desire to let as many people know as I can that we have to lead and love on folks. And I'm talking about nurture them, okay? And I think if people buy into that, look at the research. People will perform. If you loving on them, you figuring out what they need psychologically, productivity goes through the roof. But when you tell folks you don't matter,
Jeff Dudan (19:42.217)
Yeah.
Leadership Gone Wrong: The Damage of Dictatorship
Dr. Jason Carthen (19:51.354)
and just get it done. And the only time I have anything to say to you is when you're in trouble, then you create a psychological imbalance. They don't know how to deal with you. So they try to avoid you or many things will happen with that. Basically, performance will stay at a moderate or decline because they'll say, I'm just gonna do enough to get my paycheck, to not get written up. And I call that hedging.
They just hedge for as long as they can, okay, until they find something better or a leader steps in to sort of be the conduit for that transactional leader and they're the go-between and they love them folks. And then people will perform and do different things like that. So back to your original question, man playing ball, I've been under dictatorial coaches where they'll cuss you out, snatch your face mask, punch you in the chest, you know, crazy stuff like that.
because that's what they were under. And somehow they thought that was the right thing to do. But if you start from the basis of this is humanity, do your homework, understand how humans work, understand how they think. And when you give them more positive reinforcement, then you're gonna get more from them.
Now you gonna have some folks that say, oh, I don't care if they disrespect me, cuss me out, do whatever. Yeah, they say that, but the trauma will follow them throughout the rest of their life, and they've never dealt with it. And then lo and behold, Jeff, you get into a relationship with a significant other, or you're trying to raise your children, and you've never dealt with the trauma, then you cussing out your kids. You cussing out your wife. And then you saying, well, you know, this is what I saw.
And I've also had other coaches and you can interject. I don't know if you have a question or feedback. So then you also have the other coaches that I absolutely love, Tony Dungy, Romeo Crenel. In college, I had a great coach as well. Tim Hinton, he coached at Ohio State and went on and coached other places. Cincinnati, I think too. And those guys, man, I could show up.
Jeff Dudan (21:51.77)
Nope, go ahead.
Dr. Jason Carthen (22:15.018)
I tell folks, no matter where you're going, you're darkening the doors of your business, your company, whatever, you gotta show up ready to go. Whatever baggage you had coming into work or whatever, you gotta leave that stuff because you're there for a purpose. And when you understand that identifying your purpose is your purpose in this life, then you know what you need to do every day to show up.
And I remember coming in one day, and this was at the college level, coming in one day and Coach Hinton, I mean, he was always spunky, always like, come on. You know, I had a nickname back then, they called me J-Loan. They said, man, J-Loan, you gotta get going, man. You gotta get going. I'm looking at him like, dude, why are you so amped up? You know? And after a while, I became contagious though. You know, that's the way he was all the time. And so...
Coaches Who Lifted Me: Tony Dungy, Tim Hinton, and the Positive Path
When you saw him, he's like, Coach T, what we doing today? You know, it didn't even matter. Whatever he wanted me to do, I was gonna do it because I trusted him. And the way that he approached me, he never tried to disrespect me. Other coaches tried and that was difficult. It wasn't a good thing. And just being under that type of leadership, it intrigued me, Jeff. And I wanted to study leadership. I didn't know it at the time, but I knew that people respond a certain way.
based upon how you interact with them. And that really started so many things for me in terms of just loving leadership and allowing people to reach their full potential. So those were some of the different types of leadership that I was under and that I also witnessed in my career.
Jeff Dudan (24:04.749)
Some of the better football teams that I've been on had, as I look back, really competent leadership coming from the player group. And, you know, a lot of times what happens in the locker room is it defaults to who's the loudest, who's the most aggressive. And, you know, maybe they're saying things that, you know, not everybody agrees with. It's an interesting dynamic in, you know, going through camp.
Dr. Jason Carthen (24:15.747)
Mm-hmm.
Jeff Dudan (24:32.709)
as different, you know, who gets picked as a captain and then, but there's some other people that are, you know, they're, you know, they're, they're like a little bit more quiet, but they're, you know, they're people that you're going to follow. So that whole player to player dynamic is fascinating inside of a locker room. And I think teams that don't get that right, it's an impediment. It's an impediment to their success. And you know, because, you know, somebody screws up maybe off the field.
Dr. Jason Carthen (24:54.126)
You do?
Jeff Dudan (25:01.121)
And the next thing you know, they're in trouble and it impacts this whole other group of people. And now people are talking about that with this player group versus this other stuff. So, you know, really, you know, I in the problem is everybody's young, everybody's kids, you know. So if you didn't, you know, you try to find that maybe that young player that might have had the coach as a dad who so he had all the right things to say, you know, they came into the locker room or whatever. But.
Dr. Jason Carthen (25:07.145)
Mm-hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (25:15.822)
Yep. Absolutely.
Jeff Dudan (25:29.594)
There's this I know it's an internet meme, but I've got something on my wall that says never treat a loyal person in such a way that they no longer care.
Dr. Jason Carthen (25:37.678)
Mmm, that's good. That's good. A lot of truth to that.
Jeff Dudan (25:41.613)
There is, especially when you're flying high and you just got to remember that everybody needs encouragement, everybody needs respect, and everybody's got their own story. So yeah, fascinating, fascinating stuff. So from there, it was on to the NFL. And can you share just a little bit about your career that you had in the NFL?
Dr. Jason Carthen (25:45.588)
in.
Making It to the NFL—and Getting Cut
Dr. Jason Carthen (26:09.142)
Yeah, yeah, so I went the hard way, just like the rest of life. I thought and I was told I had pro days, did extremely well in my pro days. I'm a shadow of what I used to be. I'm roughly 250, 55 pounds now. When I was playing, I was 280. I had 9% body fat, squatted over 865 pounds. I benched over 565 and I was massive. I like, I'm...
Small now, man. My wife, we laugh about it, because it's like, wow, you know, she sees pictures and she's just like, wow. And it's funny because I was fine tuned for that, you know, playing ball. And you and I have been together, different venues playing golf together. So I'm small now, but compared to how I was back then, you know, they were like, man, this guy is something else. And they, one thing that,
I'll never forget, and this has followed me too. They would say, the eye in the sky does not lie. And this guy, Carthen, his motor's always running. He's always going. He's from side to side of the field. Doesn't matter if it wasn't his play, whatever. You see him in the film. You see him in the film all the time. And it wasn't like I was trying to be. It was just like, you know, we all have responsibilities. We all have tasks that we're supposed to complete. And one thing that
I wanted to do was give my all because it's what you alluded to earlier. I was not trying to go back. I wanted to just keep getting better. And so I was projected to go pretty high, man. And I was excited about it. And then these rumblings started coming in. People were saying, well, he's a tweener. And I was like, what, what is this? I had never heard that before. I didn't know, you know, what that meant. And they said, well, you're not big enough to be in the trenches at the DT level.
defensive tackle, I'm sorry, for the listeners. But you rarely have your hand up in space playing linebacker because I was the all-time leader in sacks and tackles for loss and all my records still stand except for the sacks and that was broken after 20 years. But I never really had to work in space like that. And space meant just standing up and running and covering backs and doing all these different things. So they said, it's gonna be a risk.
Jeff Dudan (28:05.595)
Hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (28:33.314)
to bring you in if you've never done that. And I was just like, man, what is all this? I've never heard all this, you know? And so began the tumble. And so I had to sign as a free agent. And that was fine. I just, I was upset, angry about that. And it was no big deal. I wound up signing the free agent contract with the Patriots and it was great, Jeff. I mean, man, you talk about excitement and...
dreams and all this stuff coming true. But I'll never forget, I wound up getting released. And that is that thing where you go, and this is where the faith part comes in, because at that point, it was almost like, you know, I was, how would I put it? I was living for me.
If I'm being authentic, I was living for me. I was not talking about my faith. I was not trying to let everybody know that I'm a believer in Christ and all these different things. It was like, I gotta do me. And it goes back to what you said about the chemistry in the locker room. You had a lot of people that did not view that as a positive thing. And in so doing, it wound up being an issue of, well, I wanna fit in.
I need to be liked. You know, I wanna be like everybody else. And I didn't know what I was supposed to do. And for someone that's listening, man, be yourself. You gotta just make a decision to be yourself because at the end of the day, you're the best version of you that God created to walk this thing out. And I wasted way too much time trying to be someone that I was not at that point.
Faith, Redemption, and a New Identity Beyond Football
Jeff Dudan (30:20.318)
Thank you.
Dr. Jason Carthen (30:29.75)
And I was devastated when I was released. And so much so that there were days, now keep in mind the upbringing that I had, there were days that I wouldn't get out the bed, Jeff. There were days that I was depressed and I was trying to figure out, well, what do I do now? I mean, I thought my life, I thought everything was football. I thought that this was going to catapult me somewhere different, all these other things.
Jeff Dudan (30:51.083)
Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (30:59.302)
And that was not the case. And it became very devastating. And I know we're losing lighting here. I think a storm is getting ready to come. So I'm about to turn the lights up here a little bit, Jeff, just so we can make sure we're good. But I began to realize that there had to be more. And I'm a firm believer that God will get you by yourself. He will, if you wanna be hard headed and you wanna act like...
You know, you just gonna do whatever you want, he will get your attention because he wants to use you for a greater good at the end of the day. And so I wound up realizing at that point that, okay, I'm gonna have to do something different. I'm gonna have to grow. And hopefully this is okay, but I went to a church service and that was the first time I heard about the death, burial and resurrection of Christ and what he did for me. And that changed my whole outlook.
That changed how I viewed things. That changed how I was gonna walk out this life and walk out my destiny. You see my shirt. Are you living your destiny on a daily basis? And it was great. It did so many things. That brokenness, that idea that I'm not enough because I'm not playing ball, that stuff started going away. And I had to realize that.
Jeff Dudan (32:21.69)
Thank you.
Dr. Jason Carthen (32:26.966)
No, I'm more than that. And I'm not going to just exist thinking that football is my everything. And so it was interesting. I played some more after that. And this is the caveat that I'll never forget. I played some more after that, but there we go. Had to turn on the light. But it was one of those things that now-
I could raise a banner for Christ. Now I could tell folks that it's not just about, you know, what I want and I'm gonna live this life selfishly, all these different things. It was more of how can I balance it while I still have the platform and be intentional with it? And I tell folks that God has a sense of humor because I signed one of the highest paying free agent contracts to go and play with the Jacksonville Jaguars.
A Career-Ending Injury—and a Career-Building Pivot
Jeff Dudan (33:03.699)
Thank you.
Dr. Jason Carthen (33:24.938)
Jacksonville, Jaguars, and got down there and I was excited. I'm running with the first team, we're doing all these good things, and one day, one play changed my life. And you may remember this, but I shared, man, I messed around a tour up my knee. Tony Buscelli came off the ball, hit the guy next to me, totally, he just destroyed the guy next to me.
We're stringing the play out. You can relate to all this. Stringing the play out, planted so I could try and rip through and come around. And when I planted, they all came into me and then boom, knee just popped and it was bad, but it wasn't that bad. It was like, okay, it was normal injury, but I was sidelined and it taught me a lot. It taught me that I was in business, I was essentially a commodity. I was like, okay, I'm pretty much done.
Jeff Dudan (34:02.541)
Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (34:22.43)
And no one came up to me and said that. They were very sneaky about it. Very much, you know, like, you know, we just gonna let the next man up. Just keep on going. And that definitely.
Jeff Dudan (34:29.394)
Yeah.
Jeff Dudan (34:33.465)
Look, they're gonna talk about you, but they're not gonna talk to you because you are and now Yeah, now you realize like I was you know, I'm good. I'm good here as long as I'm good here
Dr. Jason Carthen (34:36.79)
That's right, literally.
Dr. Jason Carthen (34:45.454)
That's right, that's right. As long as I can contribute to your point, as long as I could contribute. But man, as soon as I could no longer contribute, I was done. I mean, it was like, we don't even, as a matter of fact, Jeff, it felt a little bit like you're a liability because, you know, and it wasn't just me, other people had gotten hurt and I watched it and I was like, oh my goodness, like what's going on? And...
Jeff Dudan (34:56.241)
Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (35:13.07)
people were getting put on IR and the coaches were upset because you got to pay that contract out. You got to pay that thing on out. And so it taught me a lot about business and the type of business that I didn't want to run or birth. I have more of an idea of developing people and developing opportunities and different things like that versus very transactional. What are you doing for me?
What can you do for me? If you cannot do anything for me, then we need to sever ties. And that's tough, man. That's tough when you're talking about dealing with humans.
Jeff Dudan (35:51.753)
It is, and I've, one of the greatest opportunities that I've had in business is over 30 years, is to be able to have grace with people.
Because we're not an NFL, right? We're not like, we don't have a salary cap and we don't have a limited number of roster people we can travel and, you know, so you can have a little bit more grace because people stumble, people struggle with addiction, they struggle with relationships. And, you know, if you can impact the people that are closest to you in and around the business, I mean, some people send checks all over the world to help people that they've never seen and never heard of.
Grace in Business: Why Jeff Believes Companies Can Do Better
Dr. Jason Carthen (36:14.35)
Absolutely.
Jeff Dudan (36:30.533)
and are never gonna touch, but they overlook the people that are closest to them.
and business has an opportunity to get into life with people and to really find, you know, really customized ways to really help people when they need it the most. And that can be anything from encouragement to rehab to a plane ticket or anything that they might need in their life, but you gotta pay attention. You gotta be close, you gotta be in the pocket, boxer's term, you gotta be close enough and you gotta be in the pocket
Dr. Jason Carthen (36:55.649)
Right?
Jeff Dudan (37:04.187)
you can help people by working on the right problem.
Dr. Jason Carthen (37:09.026)
There you go, I love that. I mean, just the way that you shared that, I think many leaders don't get that. And it goes back to what we were talking about earlier. You have leaders that no one ever told them. You know what I mean? Maybe they demonstrated great work ethic and productivity and all this stuff. And so someone plucked them out and put them in a position and they probably weren't ready fully.
for the growth that's required of every leader. You never arrive, you're always in a state of becoming. If you're truly a leader, then you know. You have to continue to develop. And it's what you said, man, when you can get in the pocket and be real with folks and take risks with people, great things can happen. But I think we also, like when I was playing in the league, we also have situations where...
You have leaders who have read certain books by other leaders and they think, well, this is the way I'm supposed to act or these are the things that I'm supposed to do without really trying it on for size. Really understanding, going and talking to people, seeing how they react and really getting to the meat of what it means to have followership. There's leadership and there's also followership. You need to understand that followers talk.
They engage, they have certain expectations. I mean, you see what's going on right now with the strikes. You know, you have employees that are just like, man, I can't do this anymore. And they want the union to represent, do all these different things. And it's just, it's one of those situations that many of these things can be avoided if we won first lead in a way that's honorable, and then we love on folks. You gotta love on folks, man. It's just a basic old premise, but it works.
You just gotta meet people where they are because when those endorphins fire and they're excited and they feel loved upon and appreciated, they remember that. That's how God wired our brains. But in the same way, you cussing somebody out or you snatching they pay or you docking them or giving them a one on their formal reviews, they're gonna remember that too.
How Dr. Carthen Built His Leadership Platform
Jeff Dudan (39:25.857)
And you probably get what you deserve at that point. Yeah. Dr. Carthen, I know that I have been following you for 10 years because my son was 15 years old when he played on team USA. And we went and played maybe against Canada or whoever we were playing at Canton at the hall of fame field there in Canton, Ohio. And you were the speaker that was brought in to speak to those.
Dr. Jason Carthen (39:28.59)
Sure, sure.
Dr. Jason Carthen (39:40.75)
There you go.
Jeff Dudan (39:53.937)
young people and it was so great and that's where we got a chance to meet the first time and I've watched your career and Have watched the books come out and so I can you share? with us You know how you transitioned into building this? Inventory of leadership material and what that looks like today
Dr. Jason Carthen (40:19.106)
Well, I think at the end of the day, it goes back to just the desire. And let me know if my sound is okay. I'm getting a lot of, it's a big storm that's happening right now, but yeah. Okay, excellent. So it was the, what's that? Oh, thank you, brother. We gotta get back on the golf course, man. So I think one of the things that I had to realize, Jeff, is that if I'm truly...
Jeff Dudan (40:30.133)
Now you sound great. You sound great. Yep. Look good too. Look good too. I know it.
Dr. Jason Carthen (40:48.746)
not going to be an imposter. And what I mean by that, if I'm truly going to lead and serve, then I need to develop tools. I need to develop resources. I need to be able to equip people beyond just the speaking. Because I am a huge proponent of, yes, I'm going to come and speak to you. But every engagement that I have, there needs to be a call to action.
You need to be different than how you came in that day. And in order for that to happen, respectfully, I have to give you some tools. I'm not coming up there to just do rah rah. I could do that. I mean, we can get excited and do all this stuff and all that, but I think that once that dissipates and people walk away from that, they're left wanting and they won't even remember what I said that made them get excited. But if I can say, hey,
I'm gonna challenge you today, much like you did. I'm gonna challenge you today to go and do XYZ, okay? And report back. You know, you have accountability. And I tell folks, find one other person that you can tell that you did this and what happens when you do that with that accountability. And what I found over years is that works with people. Meeting planners that I work with.
large conferences that I go and speak at, 10, 15,000 people conferences, they go, man, you know, when I get the reviews back and the paperwork, you know, from the surveys, they'll just go, man, you were authentic, you were real, and then I couldn't just walk away because you said you need to go and do this. And so those are the things that I really wanna make actionable for people. And I use, you know, I create courses and things like that. So,
I use an old instructional design technique, no do be, KDB, no do be. Okay, it's enough to show up and learn and hear from me, so you got the no now. Okay, that's fine. But the next phase of that is the D, the do. Are you going to demonstrate this and what is this going to look like when you demonstrate it? Are you going to do it for a little bit of time?
Dr. Jason Carthen (43:10.494)
Are you gonna develop a habit like you and I talked about after 21 days, you know, of intentionality? And then finally, the B, where it just becomes who you are. You don't think about it. It's just like playing on the football or basketball, tennis, whatever, you just do it and then boom, you're being it. It's just happening. You don't even think about it. So I use that framework for people and I make it very simple so they can do it. KDB.
Where you at in the process? Are you just at the knowing point where you got another book that's sitting on my shelf, you can't really see my shelf right now, but all these different books are up there, but I've read each of them, or I've started them and highlighted them because I needed to use them to glean some type of knowledge from. And then, how am I putting it into play? Am I writing about it? Am I extrapolating it out, whether it's through an article that I've written, or a blog post, or whatever it is?
And then how am I embodying that, that be part? When I'm engaging with folks and they may be difficult, can I truly bring emotional intelligence into it because I've read about it, written about it and whatever it may be, has it become part of who I am at that point? And so I say all that and I share all that because we only have so much time on this earth, Jeff.
You know, man, I'm getting gray, Jeff. I don't know what's going on, brother. You know? It happens, right? Yeah, you make it look good though, man, to go to. But anyway, I'm getting older and the only way things are going to exist and last on into perpetuity is if I create something. I have to create something and I leave it as a part of my legacy.
KDB Framework: Know, Do, Be
Jeff Dudan (44:33.65)
Yep, we see that right here.
Jeff Dudan (44:39.133)
Hahaha
Dr. Jason Carthen (44:55.614)
And that's what destiny focused leadership is about too. And I've learned something. People may not remember me after the talk. They may not, they may be in a bad place or a good place when they're in there, euphoria, whatever it may be. So my words may bounce off. That's fine. But if I leave them with something, then they can refer back to it. If I am intentional.
with creating quality products and or tools and resources they can use, great things can happen. Great things can happen. So I knew that I wanted to do that and that's what I've been doing over the last 20 something odd years. Much like you, I mean, I've been in business now 29 years. 29 years and I think about that. And...
Jeff Dudan (45:45.705)
I think the first book I had from you was 52 laws of leadership, I believe. Is that correct? 52 ways. Yes. Can you talk a little bit about the destiny focused leadership? Is that a book? Is that a tool set? Is that a workshop? Can you expand on that just a little bit?
Dr. Jason Carthen (45:51.394)
52 ways, 52 ways, yep, to tackle leadership for your success. And go ahead.
Dr. Jason Carthen (46:09.63)
Yeah, yeah, thank you so much. So here's the thing with Destiny Focused Leadership. I have a series, it's a series, it's called Lessons in Leadership and Life, and it's a three book series. Destiny Focused Leadership is the second book in that series. As you alluded to, 52 Ways to Tackle Leadership for Your Success was the first book, and I still have people that will go and get it, and they're just like, this is great, because it allows growth edges each week.
You can dive in and the way they're set up, you have the piece and here's a unique aspect of it. You have the part that you may read for that week or for that day or whatever the case may be, however you wanna structure it so it's most comfortable for you. And then you have your takeaway tackles because the leadership linebacker, this is what I do, playing ball, all this stuff. The takeaway tackles give you the caveats to think. Think about what you just read.
Here's a unique nature of the Lessons in Leadership and Life series. When you read the content of these books, this is real life stuff. Now I've changed some names of course, and changed some of the different things, but I've gone into it, and I already have clearance from them, but I've gone into places like Warner Brothers Pictures, JP Morgan Chase, Private Banking, whatever it may be. I've gone into these huge companies. And...
I bring back the stories and write them in a case study format where I'll say, hey, these employees were dealing with this and these are some tangible ways that we dealt with it. Or these are some tangible ways, I'll never forget, I've had HR companies go, not companies, HR leaders in the company go, no, we're not doing that. And I would respectfully and take the one down approach ask, well, you know.
Is it something the way we structure? Do we need to modify it? And we're not gonna do that because you're empowering them. And I'm like, whoa. So you don't want your employees empowered? And they're straight up like, not if it's gonna cause an issue. And I'm thinking, okay, all right. And so when you get real like that, and then you put it on the pages without saying the names, and you engage folks, they can relate. And they go.
Jeff Dudan (48:11.624)
Right.
Dr. Jason Carthen (48:31.422)
Okay, so these are real life stories, real life caveats, and based on leadership theory too, not just like pulling stuff out of the air, and then giving them the tools where they can talk about it and then jot down the notes, you know, how am I gonna address this? You know, what am I going to do, you know, in order to grow in these areas? Because it's not always the leadership's fault. You have followers that feel like I've arrived and I don't wanna do anything.
I don't wanna read anymore. I don't wanna do other things anymore. They have some interpersonal issues that they haven't dealt with and they bring them to work and they have conflict with their colleagues or their teammates and it turns into issues and I address all that stuff in the books. But Destiny-Focused Leadership was a great carry on from 52 Ways because at the end of the day, I believe and this is the premise of the book. I believe that.
the leaders are responsible for cultivating their followers. You should be living a legacy, demonstrating a legacy that they can see, so thereby they are impacted positively, and then they grow to develop this legacy. And when you close your eyes for the last time as a leader, that is your legacy. You have created someone who is like you, but they have their own.
talents they bring to it as well, they have their own things that they do to sweeten the pot of the organization, okay? And when you step down or you retire or you close your eyes for the last time, that is your legacy. So it's destiny-focused leadership. At the end of the day, when you step into your destiny, how you have led, how you have loved, how you've encouraged folks, that will be.
your legacy at the end of the day. And so the experiences from different organizations that I've gone into, some of the premises about how a leader should lead, the mindset of how leaders should approach their work, we talk about all that in there.
Jeff Dudan (50:50.277)
storytelling and sharing experiences is the most powerful way, in my opinion, for people to learn. And giving advice, I've gotten now to anytime that I'm going to be leading a session or speaking, it's just like, it's the words are filler between the stories. I figure out what I want to communicate and I'm fortunate is that I have enough experiences in life to be able to go get the stories.
Dr. Jason Carthen (50:59.714)
Absolutely.
Jeff Dudan (51:20.349)
that fit the situation and weave the narrative together because I mean, we're tribal. We learn and have learned for years and years from stories. And so, the book using the examples that you've gleaned from these experiences is gonna make the material that much more powerful.
and that much more consumable for people. So I applaud that. And then you've got a 30 day challenge that you're working on. Now, is it a weight loss challenge? Because I'm looking for something.
Dr. Jason Carthen (51:44.846)
Thank you.
Jeff Dudan (51:58.569)
No? Ha ha ha.
Dr. Jason Carthen (51:58.763)
You are bad, man. You look good. Don't even try it, Jeff, man. So here's the thing. So this is 30 days to develop in a leader's heart. Here again, it goes back to your phenomenal question earlier. If I'm going to give people these books, and this is just one leadership series I've done. I mean, there are other books that I've written as well. But
Jeff Dudan (52:03.249)
Oh man, you can only see my top half.
Dr. Jason Carthen (52:26.082)
These are the ones that are very practical. And I said, man, if I'm gonna write these here again, one of the toughest things that people will do, they'll get these books and they won't crack them open. They won't crack them open because, and there's nothing wrong with that, but you're missing out on opportunities to grow. And so what I wanted to do was, I've been going to the universities for over 22 years now teaching as a.
guest lecturer, doing all these different things. They'll invite me in to speak on very specific topics like team leadership and all these different things. And I figured out a long time ago, you have different learning styles. You have some folks that come into class, man, and all they, they barely look at me and they're just writing. They're just writing, you know, they're writing because they're very tactile in nature. They want to, you know, know I can hear you, but I need to write this so I can look at it later and understand.
And then you have others that just sit back, you know, and they'll just look at me, sometimes no facial expression, whatever, and they'll come up to me afterwards and go, you know, that piece that you shared regarding blah, and I'm like, man, you were paying attention? Because this year it didn't look like you were paying attention the whole time. And then you have others that they get tuned in, because I do live events too, as well. And they get tuned in when I, uh-oh, did I lose you?
Jeff, you still there? Okay. You went, the whole screen is dark. Well, as long as you can still hear me. Okay.
Jeff Dudan (53:54.442)
I've got you. Yeah.
Well, sometimes that happens. No, yeah, you keep going. We won't even edit this out. This is real, man. This is authentic. Yeah.
Dr. Jason Carthen (54:05.418)
There we go. Then that's what we need, right? So let me know somehow in the chat if you can't hear me at some point, but here's the thing. I realized that when I am at one of my live events, one of my masterminds, one of my smaller events where I only invite 15, 20 people and we work directly on their businesses, okay? They get excited when I do demonstrations upfront. I have this thing where I take my putter
Jeff Dudan (54:13.915)
I will.
Dr. Jason Carthen (54:35.246)
And I tell folks, there's a sweet spot in business. You have to make sure whatever you're gonna sell to folks, whatever you're gonna pitch to folks, it has to be the right people in the room. If you're running ads, if you're running Google ads, Facebook ads, whatever it may be, then you have to target the right people. And so I asked them, what's your sweet spot? Do you know who your customer avatar is? And that's whether it's in person, you're back Jeff, whether it's a in person store.
or you're only doing digital marketing, you have to figure out how do you figure out your customer avatar and then target them effectively. So I take my putter up there and I have this, I think it's the 75th anniversary title list. It doesn't help me because I'm still, I don't have a very great game, but this title list man, and it only gives you a response when you hit it in the sweet spot.
and you can hit it all over the place, man, and it won't do anything.
Jeff Dudan (55:35.953)
Like what, like an audible response, like a noise or what? What are you talking about?
Dr. Jason Carthen (55:39.59)
it will give you, I wish I could, I don't know if I have it over there or not, but I got my golf bag over here. But anyway, when you hit it in the sweet spot, it will literally go ping, and that's how you know. That's how you know. And I rarely get that sound. Because I don't hit it in the sweet spot all the time. I'll yip it or do whatever.
Jeff Dudan (55:55.461)
right. That's right. Yeah.
Hahaha
Dr. Jason Carthen (56:07.402)
But the point that I try and make with folks is that you have to be operating in your sweet spot if you're truly going to scale your business. I mean, we can all get sales at a certain level, but if you're going to get in your sweet spot and really grow this thing, you got to figure out who you're selling to. You got to be doing the right offer to them. Make it a no brainer, the type of offer that you're making to them. And that's when you'll see scalability. Now, here's the point.
So here's this thing that I've realized over a period of time. By creating the 30 Day Challenge, I give people not only the book, but I also give them a course that they are catered to every day for 30 days. I created a journal that goes along with the course. They get a video from me. They also get a...
backstage pass and to seeing interviews from me and other people as well, where I talk about some of these things that, even what we're talking about today. So it's an opportunity if I'm talking about emotional intelligence and I was doing a training with a large company that only does, they have these huge dump trucks, they do all this stuff with ODOT and it's amazing.
but they were having some challenges with communication. So I had to go in there and that's one of the videos, from the 30 days, and it's not the full video. I mean, every video, because I've learned this too, you can't over stimulate people with too much information. So every video is maybe between two and four minutes for that day, but the meat of it is when I asked a question, so what did we learn today? How did you see leadership demonstrated?
in this context, how are you gonna grow from it? Now, go grab your journal, you know, or you can just type it right into the course, you know, so you can refer back to it. And the reason why I do that, Jeff, is that I found, excuse me, over years, is that where you are today in your leadership growth or your business growth, your relationship growth with your spouse, your children, whatever, you need to track it, because typically, based upon human behavior in my research and my studies,
Dr. Jason Carthen (58:30.614)
it's gonna change and you need those little markers where you can tell where you were growing or where you were sloughing off and you weren't trying to grow. And so the course is that accountability piece. You'll get a little ding that says, hey, your course is ready. I mean, your today's lesson is ready, and spend some time with it, marinate in it. And I made, like I said, I shared with you before, I made the cost of entry super low. Some of my courses are a thousand dollars.
where this course is like, I think 97 bucks or something like that. And the goal is to most importantly, dive in because I believe leadership impacts people in such a way that we all need to realize we're all leaders in our respective spheres of influence. If we understand that, then great things can happen at the end of the day. So that's why I created the Leadership Challenge in 30 days to Developing a Leader's Heart.
And it's a great companion to 52 Ways. It's a great companion to Destiny-Focused Leadership. And after one of my leadership seminars or trainings as well.
Jeff Dudan (59:37.949)
Well, it's all good and I've consumed a lot of your material and it's all worthwhile. And for $97, that's something anybody can do to get themselves dialed up and thinking about the impact that they can make. You know, I think there's over 25,000 titles out there on leadership. And then there's as many places in your life and the interactions you have over the course of a year where you can practice it, whether it's seeing somebody at the mall or talking to somebody who's selling you your jeans or...
Dr. Jason Carthen (59:56.627)
Mm-hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:00:07.979)
Mm-hmm.
Jeff Dudan (01:00:08.065)
You know little kids on a team whoever it is man The children that come into your house to see your kids their friends I mean, it's if you are passive in this life And you let those opportunities to make an impact in the moment Go by then you're missing a great opportunity to speak your legacy into other people's legacy Because you know there might be something you say to your son or daughter's friend
and it makes an impact on them for the rest of their life. And sometimes, man, we just, we get tired, we get lazy, and that's okay, because that's the human condition. But realize that, like you said, man, at some point, these opportunities are over. Everything is finite, and the closer you get to the end, I mean, life's like a roll of toilet paper. The closer you get to the end, the faster it goes. Right, so.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:00:38.467)
Yes.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:00:53.11)
That's right.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:01:02.736)
That's right, that's right.
Jeff Dudan (01:01:04.333)
Yeah, I mean, and I've been acutely aware of that at my 55 now. And so now I mean, I can pretty much say like, I've got this many years, and I've had all of these dreams and aspirations and things that I've wanted to do. And now I realize it's not someday. It has to be today. Because there's, you know, and maybe the years that I'm I think I have left, maybe we're not even promised. So
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:01:24.622)
That's right.
Jeff Dudan (01:01:32.561)
So I appreciate it. And so can you share with people where people can go to get in touch with you or the best place to go to look at some of your materials?
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:01:41.39)
Yeah. Absolutely. And I made sure to share some of these links. So whenever the show notes come out, those should be there as well. But in the interim, you can go to jasoncarthan.com. That's where you'll see a lot of my content, a lot of connectivity with me there. And then also destinyfocusbook.com as well. And we also have a special link that we've provided.
Jeff Dudan (01:01:49.777)
They will be in there. Yep.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:02:09.378)
to you as well, Jeff, where they can just click the button and they'll be taken right to a page where we can make the checkout and all that stuff easier if they wanna be connected with the book. So those two areas, and hey, you know how to find me on social as well. So just look for Jason Carthan, Dr. Jason Carthan.
Jeff Dudan (01:02:28.921)
Yeah, so look down in the show notes here associated with this episode. And as always subscribe, like, and comment on the comment we want to hear from you. And we definitely want to stay connected with you out there. So Dr. Carthin heading towards the last couple of questions here, as you think about the impact that you want to make in finishing impeccably from here going forward, like what's, what do you see that's next for you, anything on the horizon that you can share?
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:02:58.89)
Yeah, absolutely, and that's an excellent question. So, you know, one of the things we didn't get a chance to really even talk about, but I started a nonprofit, it's called the Leaders of Tomorrow Initiative, and you can find that at the Lot Initiative, where our goal is to really develop young people and those that may have some challenges in their life, because I remember my story that I shared at the very top of the show, and I wanna be intentional.
with whether it's we have many programs that we do, but we provide college scholarships. They're called the Carthen Scholars. They go off to college, great things happen, but we mentor them all the way through. We have a tackling hunger program where we actually provide food, book bags, different things like that for school-aged children every year. We have the adopt a family program at the end of the year where we.
select families who may have some challenges and we provide holiday meals and different things of that nature, where we can be intentional with more than just talking about it. I mean, literally my bride and I and our babies and volunteers, we will go and be out there and providing food and helping the homeless and things of that nature. And we also, you know.
we do outreaches at schools because what you talked about earlier, young people have a different perspective and a lot has changed since you and I, and I'm 53 so we're right together brother. It's one of those things that a lot has changed since we were coming up and young people are faced with so much noise. I call it noise and they try and decipher it.
But if they really don't understand the costs associated with some of the choices and decisions, really bad things can happen. So we try to kind of cut through that noise and say, hey, life is all about choices. You have a purpose. You need to walk in that purpose. You need to develop a passion. You need to be persistent in that. And you need to partner with those that have gone before you so you can actually understand how to walk this thing out. Sometimes they don't listen, but many of them will listen.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:05:18.438)
and good things can happen when we do that. So that's what we try to do through our nonprofit.
Jeff Dudan (01:05:23.269)
Well, that's incredible. There's so much need out there and you don't have to look far to find it. And so Dr. Carthen, if you had one sentence to make an impact in someone's life, and I know for you, you probably have, you have books of sentences that make an impact in people's lives, but if you could pick one, maybe something that you share with your kids, a mantra, something like that. What might that sentence be?
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:05:30.19)
That's right.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:05:42.511)
I'm sorry.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:05:51.502)
Speak life to live a legacy. That's, I branded on everything. Speak life to live a legacy. You probably hear my baby yelling in the background. She's not buying it right now. But when I say speak life, not only is it biblical, okay, but very practical. When you speak life, I'm talking about a positive psychological impact that people will react to.
Jeff Dudan (01:06:05.129)
Hahaha
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:06:20.93)
and demonstrate when you speak life to them, when you speak positivity over their situation versus negativity. And so when you do that, when you speak life, you are not only developing that person in that instant, but you are speaking life to live a legacy. So long after you're gone, long after you and I are not playing ball anymore or golfing or doing whatever.
whatever we spoke life to, then those individuals can now take that and they just continue it in perpetuity. That's what I'm doing for my bride. That's what I'm doing for my daughters. The goal is to speak life to them as much as possible. But at the end of the day, it's not for me to see the fruit. It's for them to see the fruit. So speak life to live a legacy. That's my mantra, man, every day.
Jeff Dudan (01:07:18.585)
It's beautiful and we're both fortunate to have platforms where we get to speak to a lot of people. So I think I think that is very wise and I Will certainly give that thoughtful consideration. So thank you for sharing that anything else Yes, sir. Yes, sir
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:07:25.56)
Mm-hmm.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:07:36.43)
If I can share one last thing. Yep, one last thing. Man, I just have to say to the listening audience and those that will see this actual video of the video cast podcast, that Jeff is the real deal. Man, this guy has been the same every interaction I've had with him, salt of the earth, humble, and he's done some great stuff. He's done some great stuff. You were one of the first ones to give me a testimonial about my book.
You were one of the first ones to encourage my heart when I was speaking in front of all those people in Canton. And I just want people to know, if you want to be a part of something that is gonna be successful, you align yourself with people that are successful. And people like Jeff, get to know him. Talk to him. Follow the show, yep, do the likes, write the reviews, all that stuff. But if you get a chance, get to know this guy.
and check out Homefront and some of the things that he's doing with that. And his son as well, from what I saw as well. So it's good stuff, man. This is Unsolicited. This is me being authentic, just trying to talk to y'all for a second, but get to know this guy.
Jeff Dudan (01:08:40.041)
That's right.
Jeff Dudan (01:08:46.449)
Well, thank you, Jason. That means a lot. Appreciate it. All right. Well, we, this has been an incredible hour to head right for who knows when this drops, but we're heading into a weekend. So we both took our Friday early evenings to put this down. And it sends me off with inspiration, hope, and good vibes all the way around. So thank you, Dr. Carthen for being on.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:08:52.109)
Absolutely.
Dr. Jason Carthen (01:09:14.111)
Absolutely. You take care now.
Jeff Dudan (01:09:16.033)
Absolutely. And as always, this podcast has been brought to you by Homefront Brands, simply building the world's most responsible franchise platform. This sounds like something you might be interested in. Reach out to me and I will be looking for you right here on the home front. Thank you for listening.
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