Doing Well by Doing Good | Bruce Kasanoff | On The Homefront

Brief Summary
In this mind-expanding episode of The Homefront, Jeff Dudan sits down with Bruce Kasanoff—ghostwriter, clarity coach, and LinkedIn thought leader followed by over 800,000 people. Bruce shares how he helps entrepreneurs find their voice, build presence, and live in alignment with their personal credo. From storytelling tactics to value-driven decision-making, this episode is a masterclass in authenticity, thought leadership, and intentional living.
Key Takeaways
- Great storytelling starts with deep listening. Bruce works with entrepreneurs weekly to uncover what matters most, distilling their words into impactful, authentic content.
- Help this person. These three words guide every interaction—online or off—and create powerful, service-driven leadership.
- Be present—it’s the secret to life. Presence enables performance, builds trust, and reveals miracles happening all around us.
- Clarity comes from codified values. Bruce lives by a personal credo of eight traits that guide every action; he encourages others to define their own.
- Don’t chase clicks—build alignment. Social media stardom means little if it doesn’t attract the life, work, and people you actually want.
- Attention is earned with truth and simplicity. From headlines to client conversations, the most effective messaging is concise, emotionally resonant, and relevant to others.
Featured Quote
“You can choose to think nothing's a miracle—or that everything is. And if you choose the latter, you're going to go through life happy.”
transcript
Meet Bruce Kasanoff: Ghostwriter, Clarity Coach, LinkedIn Powerhouse
Jeff Dudan (00:02.164)
All right, everybody, this is Jeff Duden. And as always, this podcast is brought to you by Homefront Brands, simply building the world's most responsible franchise platform, encouraging entrepreneurs to take action and transform their lives, all the while delivering enterprise-level solutions to local business owners out there on the home front where it matters. If this sounds like you, check us out at the homefrontbrands.com today.
and start your next chapter of greatness, building your dynasty on the home front. And I will be looking for you here. And today I am so absolutely excited to have Bruce Kasanoff on the podcast. Welcome, Bruce. All right. And I'm gonna do a quick background and then we are gonna dig into what is gonna be a very rich and meaningful time together. So for 10 years, Bruce has been helping entrepreneurs gain clarity, focus and fulfillment.
Bruce Kasanoff (00:38.87)
Thank you, Jeff. Thank you for inviting me.
Jeff Dudan (00:54.072)
He is a social media ghostwriter and clarity coach. Over 800,000 people follow him on LinkedIn, where his Mountain Minute newsletter offer quick tips to over 175,000 entrepreneurs and professionals. Bruce's book, How to Self-Promote Without Being a Jerk, which by the way seems like a theme, humility and authenticity and everything I've read, has helped tens of thousands of professionals who don't like to brag. He's also authored a career guide, Never Tell People What You Do.
Here's a quick, oh, and there's a video there. He was part of Ogilvy and Mather team in the mid 90s that helped transform IBM brand from arrogant to approachable and he earned an MBA at the Wharton School and has presented at Wharton Yale University and New Yorker University. Bruce, an honor to have you on today.
Bruce Kasanoff (01:42.142)
Thank you, Jeff. That was impressive. I want to meet that person someday. Thank you.
Jeff Dudan (01:44.436)
Yeah, right. He sounds great. Well, we'll, I guess we'll see, won't we? Well, I tell you, I've, I, um, I got really, uh, I went down this rabbit hole of your content and I started reading these blogs and for me, what struck me immediately was first of all, these things are, you're, you're writing as tight. I mean, it is absolutely, uh, you know, it's, it's, there's no, it's, you know how hard it is to make things simple and clear, uh, it is tight.
Bruce Kasanoff (01:48.942)
We'll see. Time will tell.
Bruce Kasanoff (02:08.558)
Thank you.
Bruce Kasanoff (02:12.799)
Right. Yeah.
Jeff Dudan (02:14.388)
It's very personal, it's emotional, and it's incredibly thoughtful. And everything that you wrote triggered kind of a, like a, yeah, man, that's, that's right type response. So I love to get to like how that happens today and how you got here. But if you don't mind, our listeners are always very interested in people's backgrounds and, you know, inflection points and decisions that you made in your life to kind of get you to this, to this great place where you are today.
Bruce Kasanoff (02:24.212)
Excellent, excellent.
From Rollercoaster Careers to Realization: “I’m a Creative, Not an Entrepreneur”
Jeff Dudan (02:40.804)
Would you just, anything you care to share, we would really appreciate to understand who you are, Bruce.
Bruce Kasanoff (02:46.546)
Sure. So my career, my life looks like a roller coaster. It just goes like that. I've never been a person that's like, OK, I'm going to go work someplace for 30 years. So I have started companies, failed companies, tried again. I had one company 20 something plus years ago that I lost my $80,000 investment three times or in the back and then finally recognized, wait a minute.
that this is not working. So I would say I'm a creative who for a long time thought I was an entrepreneur. And in reality, I'm a creative. What I really love to do is I love to bring out the best in entrepreneurs. I love to be with entrepreneurs. I love that kind of get stuff done mentality. But myself, I'm not that. But it took me 20 years to figure that out, because I had to.
succession of businesses and I was always best in someone else's business like being you know number two and number three or being the creative force behind the person and and then finally ten years ago I figured out okay I'll just be the creative force behind entrepreneurs period there won't be any you know doubt about it so that's the short quick answer to what you just said.
Jeff Dudan (04:06.388)
I got it. Now where did you grow up?
Bruce Kasanoff (04:09.07)
I grew up in Boston, Massachusetts. I went to Boston Latin School, which is the oldest school in the country, which I absolutely hated. And bad news, it's six years instead of four because junior high too. So, but yeah, I grew up in Boston.
Jeff Dudan (04:23.952)
Okay, and then have you have you travel around the country much in your in your business life?
Bruce Kasanoff (04:29.878)
Well, I just literally, November 19th, I left Vermont and I drove with my partner, Joan, all the way around the country. We went to cool towns and we looked for a place to live and we ended up in Bend, Oregon. We literally moved here six weeks ago. So after driving around the entire country to figure out where to go, I obviously have traveled all over the world, but that was the most recent.
Jeff Dudan (04:57.336)
How long did that take you to do that? Yeah, I.
Bruce Kasanoff (04:59.778)
took us three months. So we stopped in Asheville, Austin, Taos, Dana Point, Malibu, Bend, and Seattle. And all for like a week or two or three. Actually, the most interesting part was we spent three weeks on a cliff looking at Seattle, so across Puget Sound, in Tamkont, Suquamish, I think it's pronounced.
Jeff Dudan (05:11.586)
Okay.
Bruce Kasanoff (05:29.046)
which is really interesting.
Jeff Dudan (05:29.176)
I think it's, wait a minute, I think it's, Suss, Sammamish? Ah.
Bruce Kasanoff (05:34.294)
No, that's different. All the places up there are just like, wait a minute. No, there's another place like that. Anyway, but we looked at America for three weeks, which was kind of interesting to be just offshore. And then we went two more weeks across and stayed in West Seattle where we were looking at. So it's really interesting to do that occasionally, to step back.
Jeff Dudan (05:42.083)
Yeah.
Jeff Dudan (05:58.476)
Oh man, get a new, look through a new window, get some new perspective on life. And I heard Bend is absolutely gorgeous.
Bruce Kasanoff (06:05.586)
It is. It's annoying now, which is annoying.
Jeff Dudan (06:09.604)
Yeah, well, fantastic. And I really appreciate you sharing that. You know, our listeners are, you know, a lot of times people that are looking at making a change in their life, they're maybe looking at a franchise business or an entrepreneurial journey. Sometimes it's self-inflicted, other times it's inflicted upon them. So anytime that we can speak into their journeys with our journeys is always a...
appreciate it and what we're looking for. So, you know, I look at the work and, you know, the question is, is like, who is this guy? And I dig in through it. You got a lot of content on your website and I would highly recommend that people go to your website because all of, I am not going to say all, but there is an inventory and a library of all these very thoughtful LinkedIn articles. There's other content there. I imagine you can find your book on there.
Inside the Ghostwriting Process: How Bruce Turns Conversations into Clarity
Bruce Kasanoff (07:06.454)
You can actually find an entire book on there. I have a book called The Ghostwriter's Questions. It's all free. It's all on Casanova.com. So there is a lot of content there.
Jeff Dudan (07:14.168)
Okay, nice. So now, so are you a, you said you're creative. Are you, do you consider yourself to be primarily an executive coach or a marketer or a ghostwriter? Like how do you, you know, how do you describe yourself at a cocktail party?
Bruce Kasanoff (07:34.946)
Well, I always I'm a ghostwriter is how I say things in a cocktail party because everyone always asks you, wait a minute, either they either say, what's that? Or they say, you know, well, that's that's different. And tell me about it. So yeah, no, I'm a ghostwriter primarily. And, and a different type of ghostwriter, meaning I don't really work on books. I work only with entrepreneurs. I talked to the same group of about 14 entrepreneurs once a week.
And I always start the conversation with what matters most. So what matters most to you, recognizing that some weeks you're going to tell me about the meaning of life, according to your philosophy. And sometimes you're going to tell me we're trying to close our next round of funding and that's all I'm thinking about. Or, you know, we got a chance to double our size if we merged with this company. I'm not sure if we should do it or not. And so I have these profound, incredibly deep.
often personal conversations with entrepreneurs. And then at the end of that conversation, I take a piece of it and I look for the intersection between what matters most to that person and what matters most to their network. And I create a social media post in their name, in their words, because like you are doing right now, I'm recording the session, so I have actually your words. And people, it's interesting because a lot of times the entrepreneur is a bit surprised.
what I came up with, even though he or she said those words. Because, you know, the thing that happens is that it's hard for us to discern out of all the things we know, all the experiences we have, all the opinions and beliefs we have, what's going to be most helpful to somebody else. And my job is to listen to you and say, wait, that. Because many times...
you as an entrepreneur, you will rush past. You think it's a secondary point. You've been doing this so long. Like, I've been hitting the head 12 times, and I always get up, and here's how. And you don't even think about it, because that's just what you do. But to me, listening as the reader, I think, oh my god, I never heard it put that way, or people could really use that. So that's fundamentally what I do.
Jeff Dudan (09:57.572)
So 14 clients is a relatively small customer set. So that would imply that you are very selective about who you work with. So I'm interested in that.
Bruce Kasanoff (10:12.446)
Yeah, I mean, I wouldn't say it that way. I'd say that there are certain people who are drawn to me and vice versa. Like I'm not a person at all who say, like if you call me up tomorrow and say, would you consider taking on a client? I absolutely would consider taking on a client. I'm not at all like snobbish or, but the people who are, who stay with me and who love working with me and vice versa, they have two characteristics. One is they are people who know how to get things done.
Jeff Dudan (10:18.416)
Got it.
Bruce Kasanoff (10:42.63)
Because I'm not drawn to people who just, oh, let's talk about our feelings all day. That's not who I am. Although I will talk about our feelings, but I want to do other things, too. And then the second is they're willing to go deep. They're willing to be self-aware. They're willing to say, okay, well, I've been successful so far, but what's it going to take to get to the next level? And why would anyone in my network, me and my investors, my employees, my customers,
my friends, my family, why would they care about the next thing I have to say? And the people who I can say to, OK, well, that's really interesting, but I don't think we should write about that. And who can listen, why not? And say, well, here's why not. And I don't care if they argue with me. I just want them to think about it. And so that type of person, there's always room for one more.
Jeff Dudan (11:33.616)
Got it. And are these 30 minute hour long sessions? Okay. And then who's a typical client? So onto people that know how to build something. I imagine that this is high value, but probably also high investment to get your time to be able to do this. So it's gotta be people that have probably significant size businesses and what semi-public personas perhaps?
Bruce Kasanoff (11:38.294)
30 minutes, yeah, usually.
Bruce Kasanoff (12:03.222)
No, no. So my typical client has three to 100 employees. I have clients who have raised $100 or $200 million. I have clients who have never raised money. So for example, I'd say probably half my clients are business owners, not these venture-backed entrepreneurs. And then the rest are.
Jeff Dudan (12:12.271)
Okay.
Jeff Dudan (12:21.157)
Mm-hmm.
Bruce Kasanoff (12:33.134)
either venture backed and I have a couple, meaning probably one of each, one coach, one consultant, both very successful. I think the real thing is that people who have achieved some measure of success in what they do. It's hard for me to work with somebody who's like, I'm starting out, because that's just not where I am right now.
If you've raised around, if you've built your business, if you've... I mean, I have people in the legal industry, I have people in technology, people in varied industry, really those two characteristics of like, are you successful and do you want to go deep? That's really the thing.
What Stops the Scroll? Crafting Headlines That Demand Attention
Jeff Dudan (13:19.344)
So what do you think gets people to stop and read something? I saw one of your articles and I think it's a 27 year old warning and I think it was from Carl Sagan and I think it had to do with, that had to do with, was it materialism and things like that.
Bruce Kasanoff (13:32.673)
Oh yeah.
Bruce Kasanoff (13:38.95)
Well, Carl Sagan, before he died, he was a famous astronomer and probably the best explainer of science of his time. And he wrote in a couple of places, one in a book and a speech before that, that he was worried that our society was becoming a technological society, but that the way we educated the members of our society, meaning our schools and whatnot and our public conversations, that we were getting to the point where everyone, including...
the legislators, including the policymakers, including the programmers, lack the technical capability to understand the implications of where we were going. So the, you know, chat GPT AI is a great example of, you know, people saying, should you take a six month pause? Should you, should we legislate this? And I think about Carl Sagan's word, you know, about 27 plus years ago now, and say like, who's capable of thinking?
clearly about this. So that to me is one of the themes that I go through is what does it take to think clearly?
Jeff Dudan (14:45.4)
Yeah, and I'm interested because I was clicking through the articles and like most of them really resonated with me and kind of made me stop and think and want to read, not just read three or four sentences and click away from it. So how do you stop people in their tracks? Like what is it? What's the psychology behind what you do? Because there has to be a formula. I know that you've got a lot of stuff on your, you know, it's got to be interesting and it's got to be that. But like, clearly,
Bruce Kasanoff (15:11.822)
Sure.
Jeff Dudan (15:15.46)
you're good at getting people to give 30 seconds to 60 seconds of attention to your clients. Talk to me a little bit about that. What stops people?
Bruce Kasanoff (15:24.274)
Yeah, so first of all, I think that every attempt I or anyone else has ever made to provide the seven principles for doing this is outdated almost as soon as you publish it because our standards for what's interesting, what's not, what will stop me if not keeps changing. And so I think the first thing is a willingness among...
If you're the content creator, if you're the entrepreneur, whose every voice you're talking, are you able to...
Bruce Kasanoff (15:59.842)
internalize, you know, who am I talking to, what do they care about, and can I tap into that? You know, so I always think of it as like, if you were in the room with me, how would I try and have a good conversation with you? And then I try and extend it to larger numbers of people. So I'm always trying to be somewhat unexpected. I'm always trying to be, like for, I'll give you an example. So for
Three years, I was a LinkedIn influencer, which basically means there were like 100 and then 200 and then 300 of us who could publish on LinkedIn when nobody else could. And when I first started out, I was like the only non-famous person, literally. Everybody else was famous, I was not. Nobody knew who I was. And once the executive editor, Dan Mott, sent me a note and he was like, Bruce, I love your content, but your headlines, they make people think. And when I have 2000 options I could click on, like, what does he mean?
is not a good thing. And so you got to work on your headlines. And the headline is now today, sometimes there's no headline, it's just whatever the opening, the opening five words of your video, the opening five words of a short tweet or post. And so in those few words or the image, you have to stop people. You have to figure out like, can I be surprising? Can I say exactly what you were thinking? Can I meaning, how are we going to survive the recession?
The best headline I ever wrote was, $75,000 buys happiness, more does not, which is based on this survey people have seen now that if you make $150,000, are you happier than $75,000? No. Once you have your basic needs, money doesn't make you happy. Yeah, yeah, exactly. And so it... But that gave you the lesson.
Jeff Dudan (17:41.972)
Yeah, and then it's intrinsic motivation from there. Yeah.
Bruce Kasanoff (17:55.926)
but also stop you in your tracks because it's like, wait a minute. I've been thinking my next raise, I'm going to be happy finally. And so those people really resonate. Or is intuition the highest form of intelligence, which is intentionally provocative intuition, which is a subject people really are fascinated with. That's the first word. So just something that, oh, I like intuition.
You just say story about intuition will not pull people in you know, like literally those words like here's a story about intuition No, you have to have something else So then you know I connect like is it the highest form of intelligence which is kind of the opposite of what our society? Believes certainly the business culture. So you just have to do something and then you have to be I mean one of my biggest lessons is decide what you're going to share today and only do that like I'm by the which I mean
You have one point, stick to the one point. Like you said, I'm concise. That is part of what I try and do is like everything else that's unrelated to the one thing I want to accomplish today. Just forget it. Don't, as an aside, no. You know, like you just don't go on this twisty turning path unless you're, you know, you're on a date and you want to do that, but not on social media.
Jeff Dudan (19:12.011)
Right.
Jeff Dudan (19:16.065)
Ugh.
Jeff Dudan (19:21.624)
That is such sage advice because man, I will have three tangents in one sentence. And I just, you know, and the people that I really enjoy spending time with are people that are thoughtful and can go a little bit deeper into something. What's interesting about what you said about headlines is your headlines are questions that people would like the answer to.
Bruce Kasanoff (19:46.99)
Sometimes yeah.
Jeff Dudan (19:47.188)
It's yeah, I mean it's like well or or or you know, i'm looking at some of these right here Like there's a few that that jumped off the page at me and there's hundreds on there. But one is thou shall not brag Oh, that's interesting. You know, it's a that seems like a commandment. Is that the 11th commandment that we're looking?
One Idea, One Post: The Power of Simple, Focused Messaging
Bruce Kasanoff (19:58.178)
Right, yeah.
Bruce Kasanoff (20:05.572)
Don't quiz me on that. So I'll probably fail.
Jeff Dudan (20:08.884)
On the articles? Yeah, well. But I'm saying, these just headlinings. Never tell people what you do. That's a great. I'm like, oh, that jumped off. I need to read, what does he mean by that? Three words that will, yeah.
Bruce Kasanoff (20:21.986)
Well, right, right. So to give you an example, so.
There were many different tactics. You, for example, can reverse common wisdom and get someone's attention. So one piece I did that worked really well was never teach a starving man how to fish, which is the opposite of what everybody says. If you teach a man how to fish, you know? And when I turned around, I said, look, if someone's starving, they're going
Literally, I haven't eaten in five days. You do not want to teach me how to fish then. You want to give me some fish, let me recover, and then say, would you like to know how to get your own food? I have to be open to that guy. So I try and think. Now one of the things I did, for example, to get that particular piece, which went hugely viral, was...
I once published, and I sometimes do this, I publish a list of 20 tips, 40 tips, 50 tips, on LinkedIn, just in one long thing. And then I read the comments and I see, wow, everybody likes number nine. I'm going to write something about number nine. So a big part of this is paying attention in your life, as well as social media. What do people say to you? Like, oh, wow, that was great.
Tell me more about that. Well, that's the type of thing, which on the other hand, people say like, oh yeah, what, I'm sorry, I wasn't listening. That's not the stuff you wanna share with other people, even if it's important to you. And that's one of the hardest things, is that the things that you care about are not necessarily what other people care about. And you have to know that, that self-awareness.
Jeff Dudan (22:15.52)
That is so a consistent theme that runs through your content. Uh, I think and, or maybe, you know, what's interesting. Maybe those are just the things that jumped out to me is humility. Uh, the humility titles just jumped out to me, you know, don't, so I guess with all these hundreds of, of article titles, uh, that are so well crafted and interesting, probably depending on who you are is, is you go through the list, certain ones are going to jump out to you.
Bruce Kasanoff (22:28.374)
Right.
Jeff Dudan (22:45.14)
and other ones you're just going to pass over. So how do you balance if, let's say, somebody wanted to increase their social media following, and there's so many people out there that, you know, I mean, sometimes we watch people on social media that are willing to say the things that we aren't. They're brash. They might be profane.
They're aggressive. If there's something that happens in the news media, they're gonna have an opinion on it and it's gonna be right in your face and right in your theme and your thread. That's not really your approach. I don't expect that those are your clients or people, you have more thought leaders or thoughtful people. So does it really have to do with, for your clients?
Bruce Kasanoff (23:25.986)
That's true.
Jeff Dudan (23:34.232)
the audience, how much do you change your method based on the audience that they're going for? Or do all of your clients kind of have this business professional thought leader type thing? So you can pretty much go with that voice.
Bruce Kasanoff (23:51.598)
Right. Well, I mean, there is a significant difference in my clients and their voice. If you put all my clients in the room together, I'm not sure they all would get along. So I do think there's a difference. That said, I am not drawn to particularly brash and bold. Not bold I am, but brash, no.
Jeff Dudan (24:02.387)
Hahaha
Bruce Kasanoff (24:20.29)
visionary or you know You know, there's certain things we should not say about ourselves You know, it's for it's for someone someone else to say that was the best thing I ever read great someone else can say but you should I you shouldn't even repeat that like there are I do think that they have a certain, you know Humbleness, you know baked into to how I like to move through the world, but I would say the most important piece of what you're talking about is
Jeff Dudan (24:27.142)
A-agreed.
Why Thoughtful Wins: Rejecting Internet Fame in Favor of Aligned Growth
Bruce Kasanoff (24:50.07)
There are things we can do to attract an audience that will bite us in the long run. And what you can do to get attention is not necessarily what you should do to have a fulfilled life. And so I think it's important to think about that, especially today in a world where, I mean, one of the reasons, one of my good friends is head of a child psychology unit of a major hospital.
and our health care organization, I should say. And there's a crisis among children and teens today. I mean, it's like 25 times higher visits to emergency rooms for psychological issues in the last three or four years. And part of that is social media. And part of that is the pressures that it puts on us. And so you really want to be careful to say,
can I get a million views? It's can I bring into my life the things that I want to bring into my life? And you should say and do and conduct yourself in such a way to make that a positive self-fulfilling prophecy.
Jeff Dudan (26:05.728)
Yeah, that's a mouthful of truth right there. What is rewarded on the internet are things that we would never have grown up coaching young people to do or to engage in. It seems like a whole different world where everybody's alter ego is out there. And the wackier it gets,
the more attention that people are likely to get. And I think that really feeds on itself and things spin up. And imagine if you're just a kid, man, and you're looking for a place to belong, you're trying to figure out your way through life, you've got parents and you've got other obligations and people, and then you've got all this pressure and you see all this other stuff online. Some of it's true, some of it's not.
It's hard to kind of stay that know who you are today. I would imagine, you know, you know, growing up like we, I mean, it was just personal accountability, do the hard work, put other people first, you know, keep your head, you know, you get rewarded for what you do in private, you know, do you know what you are who you are when nobody's looking all of those types of things. Stuff's out the window today. That's not what people get. You could say that. But that's not what people are getting rewarded for on.
Bruce Kasanoff (27:24.267)
Right, yeah.
Jeff Dudan (27:33.26)
in a lot of cases. So try it.
Bruce Kasanoff (27:35.19)
Well, but I'll give you an example. So one of my clients, he runs legal conferences. And so he has built a community of professionals who, literally, for example, he gathers 75 professionals together every Thursday on a one-hour Zoom call, where he has guest speakers and whatnot. He brings 200 people into a conference four or five times a year. He has managed to build a p-
a public persona, largely focused on this community I just described, with values that are consistent with how he wants to move through the world. He attracts people who are like that, meaning not identical, but you want to do the right thing. All the things you just said. You certainly can do that. I think the mistake that people make is they think, oh, if I'm going to compete for attention on social media, I need to be big, bold.
It's like views instead of do I really believe this? And most of us, for example, I said usually I have about 14 clients. Well, I don't need to be a mass media star if I only want 14 clients. What I have to do is I have to be consistent enough that people can get, oh, I would like to work with this guy because they get, if they see me time and time again, it's consistent. Doesn't mean it's boring.
It just means that I don't say one day, like, here, I'll give you a million dollars if you do this. No, that's not. You just have to know who you are, which is, unfortunately, a tough thing to do by yourself, to really say who. No.
Jeff Dudan (29:15.22)
It is. Well, I think fundamentally, and if you look at my book, discernment and the stories that I share in there, you know, we've had a set of my family and I, we had a set of family values that hasn't changed in over a decade and it's kind of how we roll and how we make decisions. It's not the only thing, but it pops up. It rears its head occasionally when a decision pops up and we'll be like, well, okay, well, this is how we need to make that decision, you know, based on that. So.
It's not something that we are, we don't have a shrine to it in the kitchen, but it is up on the fridge. So, and then, yeah, well, it is, especially in the middle of the night when there's unsupervised ice cream. But, and then in our companies, we kind of build values forward companies and it's about how, this is how relationships are managed. This is what's get to fire. This is what's expected.
Bruce Kasanoff (29:50.24)
Right. That's sort of a shrine, but yeah.
Jeff Dudan (30:10.36)
And it's helpful. And I see that you have a personal and professional credo. You thought enough of about it to have it prominently on the website. Be generous and expert, trustworthy and clear, open-minded and adaptable, persistent and present. So how does that live in how you navigate the world?
The Personal Credo: 8 Words That Changed Bruce’s Life
Bruce Kasanoff (30:36.194)
It's pretty much everything. So first, the background to that, I was having photographs taken because I needed to have a speech, I'd give a speech nine years ago, and the photographer said, do you mind if I do this little meditation and just to relax you before? And I got this flash, like literally in my head that the only way I could be successful and move through the world clearly was to...
be able to say in a sentence what I care about, what matters most. And I was like, it was such a strong thing. I went home immediately after that session and wrote down that sentence that you just read, which is basically eight words. And then I proceeded to put that out into the universe as much as I could. I think first year I put it out as a PDF.
40,000 people downloaded it. The book you described up front, How to Self-Promote Without Being a Jerk, is organized around those eight words. Pretty much everything I have done since then, for example, be generous. I give away more things than I possibly that really make sense. But I do. But also what it gave me, and that's why I'm so proud of it.
Those words are not nearly as important to your listeners or readers as what I'm about to say. It doesn't matter what mine are. What matters are, can you wake up a year from now, and two years from now, and three years from now, and basically have the same clarity over what your words or sentence or phrase are, is, however it turns out to be? That's why it matters to me. I've tinkered at times.
With that, whether I changed a little bit. But the point is that if someone calls me 17 days from now and say, Bruce, tell me about your credo, it's still the same. And when I lie in bed at night, which I often do, and say, was I consistent with what I believe today, I know the standard, the yardstick of what I'm measuring against. That's the important part. If you have that.
Bruce Kasanoff (33:00.082)
it's so much easier because when you get into these really difficult situations like, which do I do? Do I pay the person more? Do I, you know, take let, for example, I'll give you a great example. One of my clients in the beginning of COVID had about 75 employees. He owns his own company, no investors. And he said, this is at the beginning, like in mid-March, he said to all his employees, I guarantee through the end of May.
I'm not going to do anything to threaten your income. We're going to get through this lockdown, and I'm going to pay everybody. I don't care what happens to business. I'm going to pay you all. And at the time, I mean, we talked about that before he did it. He didn't ask my permission. He just told me he was about to do it. And he told me why, because he has the five values for his company, and it was consistent with the five values in his company. And that's what he did. And I think ever since then, the dividends to him.
enormous because it really defined and solidified what his values are, what he believes in, and how much risk and capital he's willing to put on the line for his values.
Jeff Dudan (34:13.032)
I think that is the most powerful lesson that I see people need to learn. They're halfway through their career, they're 40 years old, they've chased it around and they really haven't been declarative about who they are and what they'll tolerate and how they choose to navigate life. And I wake up, when I wake up in the morning and I have clarity of purpose and clarity of discernment, meaning...
I know that there's nothing, I mean, I look, I'm in a lot of businesses and things don't always go well, which results in conflict. So I, every day I walk into some half a dozen conflicts. Some of them are little, some of them are larger, but I know that like, I know how I'm going to roll. If it costs me money, but I'm going to do the right thing based on what I believe, then I'm not going to sweat.
and have all these regrets over doing the right thing and resolving the situation if I made a mistake or something like that. And vice versa, I know when I'm gonna fight and I know what I'm gonna fight for because I'm gonna fight for what I believe to be right. But those things are kind of predetermined in a framework for me. And it's been one of the most freeing things that I could do. I sold the business in 2019 that I built for almost 25 years. And my coach...
executive coach said, you know, whatever you choose to do next, always, always drive, make sure that it is driving you deeper into your purpose and it is aligned with the person who you aspire to be. And that's, that's a powerful statement, hard to do, right? Because sometimes we see a shiny coin and we want to chase that dollar. And I got to tell you, when I've gotten into situations where
Bruce Kasanoff (36:01.814)
That's right.
Jeff Dudan (36:07.416)
If I, if I, if I did, I got distracted with the money or the opportunity or the potential of it, but I really didn't look fundamentally at maybe who was involved or what do I really believe that this is a good business or do I have maybe a moral issue with this? You know, have I, do I really done enough work to understand that this is good for humanity and good for the customers and all of that?
Those are the times when they just haven't went well. So if I would have honored what I agreed to honor and I would have been disciplined to do it, then I would have saved myself time, energy and money because bad decisions are just a debt on our future time, energy and money. And we carry the weight of our decisions around on our back for the rest of our lives, big and little. I mean, it's just cumulative weight that we carry through life.
Bruce Kasanoff (36:46.339)
Oh yeah.
Tough Decisions, Right Framework: How Values Create Freedom
Bruce Kasanoff (36:57.334)
And when you're making tough decisions, it helps to have some system for how do I make sure. Because when the pressure grows, that's not the time to figure out how you're going to decide. You have to know that when there's no pressure on it, and then just stick with what you're doing. These are my values. This is my credo. This is what I believe in. And do it from there.
Jeff Dudan (37:04.644)
Yeah.
Jeff Dudan (37:25.092)
Yeah. So ours, if any, you know, our family values are live fun, respect others, be humble, never panic, which is interesting that it's a value, but how many people, like when something bad happens, like the world needs to slow down. Like it's, you know, I often say in business when I'm coaching people, like none of this is fatal, but sometimes in life things can be fatal.
Bruce Kasanoff (37:31.719)
Mm-hmm, like that.
Jeff Dudan (37:53.152)
And the last thing you want to do is be running around like, you know, when, running around crazy, um, be a servant leader, uh, fail fast and move forward. Trust yourself to take chances and always do more than is expected.
Bruce Kasanoff (37:53.166)
Sure.
Bruce Kasanoff (38:07.235)
I like that. That's great. And how long have you lived with that?
Jeff Dudan (38:07.949)
Yeah, I'm in it.
Jeff Dudan (38:11.996)
Oh man, geez, 10, 12 years probably, at least. At least, I mean, I got some crumbled up paper with it on there that's seen better days. So it's been floating around a while. But well, I think that's powerful for people, especially when people are looking at, I mean, right now in the economy, we've got
Rising interest rates, we've got uncertainty in corporate jobs. People are, you know, inflation has accelerated at a certain rate. Wages have accelerated at a lesser rate. So now there's this gap. The, you know, people have more month at the end of their money and they're now people are like, well, if this keeps continuing, then my standard of living is going down even if I'm getting a 3% bump. So what do I do? And those are the people that are coming to us.
And a lot of times in corporate America, because people are following the path and doing, doing what, uh, what is expected. And, you know, they're looking around, you know, everybody relative to their peers, what are they doing? They haven't done this work a lot of times. What it takes to do this work is you've got to be out there kind of on the edge, uh, and in an entrepreneurial role, or you got to have some time to yourself, or you've got to be like, okay. Uh,
this really needs to work right now, let me hyper-focus on how I'm gonna go about making these decisions. So I just encourage people out there to know thyself and be declarative about who you are and don't be apologetic about who you are and then surround yourself with those people that are gonna speak into that because there's always people, and I think like social media is kind of the quick fix, right? There's more inspirational memes out there than anything.
And you know, that might make.
Bruce Kasanoff (40:03.146)
Can I say something about what you just said? Because one of the issues when you work in a large company, or just work in a company, is that a lot of times companies say, here are our values. Here's our mission. Here's our whatever. And a lot of times, people feel, I think, implicitly, to be successful, I just basically have to embody what my boss thinks, or the company thinks, the CEO thinks.
Jeff Dudan (40:05.37)
Sure.
Bruce Kasanoff (40:31.198)
And so therefore you skip the part that we've been talking about. You don't focus very much on what do I believe? What are my values? I mean, you have basic values. You go to church or temple or, you know, I understand that. But day to day, I think people don't think like I don't know that many people who work for somebody else who have a credo that they can give to you. You know, and so it's not that they're better or worse or anything. It's just that.
Jeff Dudan (40:54.16)
Exactly.
Bruce Kasanoff (41:01.334)
they feel like, oh, well, I just want to do what my employer tells me to do. And what I have seen a lot of in the last year in companies that you thought were stable and fine, and they're laying off people like crazy, and they're doing it in a brutal way. I mean, Salesforce, well, I do mean to call them out a little bit, you know, that they were this big family and in this whole culture, and they were brutal.
in how they laid off people. And so, you know, you're laid off because your computer stops working. I mean, that's just horrific. And then people start to say, oh my god, how could this happen? What do I stand for? What do I want to do? Do I want to just go back and work for a big company like that again? And that is really worth a lot of effort on all of our parts.
If you were to sit in there to please your current employer, that's not going to serve you well in the long run. I'm not saying you have to quit your job, but I am saying that you should not substitute their values and their belief system for yours.
Jeff Dudan (42:15.872)
I agree. And that's when the work really starts, right? When you, when there's some fear and there's some risk of loss and maybe a threat like, Oh, I was, you know, I was going to be comfortable. And I know people that work for Microsoft, man, that have done exception, they've been there 25, 30 years. They've done exceptionally well. They've had to move around, but they've navigated the company and, um, you know, they're safe. I mean, they're, they're relatively safe and, uh, they're at very little risk of.
you know, having a sleep out in the rain without a roof over their head at any time soon. And so, you know, you're not really forced into this. All right. Well, it's, if it's up to, if it's going to be, it's up to me and I got to figure out. And then you start looking at like, you start hanging out with other entrepreneurs and it's like, okay, these people think a little bit differently. Uh, they're, they're a little bit more focused. They're a little bit more, uh, they're, they're, they're game ear.
and they're a little bit more introspective and they really, they really know who they are and how they occur. This same coach shared with me, he said, you know, Jeff, some people get paid by the hour salespeople might get paid commission, but, but leaders get paid by the conversation. And I mean, if you think about that, there's a whole different mindset when you're getting paid for a task that you do or an outcome that you deliver.
versus value creation and creating value inside of a team of people or You know creating value for somebody you had something in Man it was I forgot where I read it, but it was in some of your things about Creating value for other people or was it? Oh, it was the three words The three words your your your three words which were
Bruce Kasanoff (43:45.883)
Mm-hmm. Yeah.
Bruce Kasanoff (44:08.514)
Help this person.
The Three Most Transformative Words: “Help This Person”
Jeff Dudan (44:09.412)
You help this person. The title of the article is three words that will transform your career. Help this person. I thought that was very profound.
Bruce Kasanoff (44:16.502)
Yeah, so the deal with that is that any time you interact with another person, whether the phone rings or someone knocks on your door or you're in a meeting, in this setting, we're doing your podcast together, the first three words in your head should be help this person. Like, how can I help this person? And on the one hand, people say, oh, yeah, you should always try and help each other.
On the other hand, when your phone rings and you're busy and you don't think that, you think, what? What do you want? You know, you try a busy CEO comes into a meeting and, you know, what he or she is trying to do is, I only have nine minutes, I'm late. Not looking out at the nine people who have been waiting 35 minutes for him and saying, how can I help these people? And yet if you do that, it transforms your life, your results, the way people react to you.
Bruce Kasanoff (45:15.678)
in your credo servant leader. Leader's job is not to be the smartest and most powerful person in the room. Leader's job is to be of service to all the people around him or her. The people who think that way have profoundly different experiences of life. And a lot of times, people make the mistake of thinking, oh, but you don't understand. I got to double sales this. I can't be helping everybody. Yes, you can. Because again, the people like Adam Grant wrote Give and Take years ago are very successful.
profound book, and that the most successful salespeople are successful focused givers, those people who are constantly giving of themselves, but who keep in mind what are my values, what are my goals. I'm trying to grow my company, I'm trying to double sales, but I'm going to do it by helping as many people as I possibly can.
Jeff Dudan (46:05.196)
Yeah, 100%. You know, the last word in your credo is present. Have you ever read the book, The Present? That's fantastic. Little, I mean, little, you know, thin little read. Probably you could read it on a short Southwest flight in 40. Yeah, well, sure. That's true. Well, you could read it at the terminal. True.
Bruce Kasanoff (46:11.423)
No. No.
Bruce Kasanoff (46:20.458)
If they take off. Yeah. You read the Bible on that.
Jeff Dudan (46:30.792)
Uh, but I mean, it's, it's, and basically it's, it's the whole, the whole concept of the book is, is that you're being present is the present. Like you're, it's a gift to somebody when you are fully present with them. And I really work hard not to do what you just said. So if somebody stops me in the hallway, stop, relax your shoulders, look them in the eye, don't look, don't be, you know, like.
Bruce Kasanoff (46:41.908)
Mm.
Jeff Dudan (46:57.476)
turning away and trying to walk away from them. Like if somebody needs something from you, you can give them 60 or 90 seconds of being present and that will make all the difference in that interaction.
Be Present: The Secret to Peak Performance, Leadership, and Joy
Bruce Kasanoff (47:11.65)
So I have, in the last year or two, I have, I'm going to tone this down a little bit because I could kind of blow your mind a little bit, but I think this is the secret of life. I think being present is the secret of life. I think being present is where all the magic is. Like when you see people who, what was the name of the woman for Iowa who sunk?
all those three pointers and almost they came to the second to last like they came in second and the March Madness. But you know she's like 35 feet out and she's sinking under incredible pressure. She's never been in that situation before. You know the people who can be fully present can accomplish things that we think are miracles and the reason that we notice this is because
Jeff Dudan (47:46.16)
Caitlyn... Yeah, she was great.
Bruce Kasanoff (48:08.562)
so few of us maintain that ability for any period of time, meaning more than two minutes, more than five minutes. Everything that you will ever accomplish that is truly spectacular, that you talk about when you're in a rocking chair on the porch when you're 95 years old, is the result of being present. And the longer you can maintain that present moment focus, whether you're listening to somebody, you're writing, you're
creating your masterpiece, you're making a decision, the better your life will be, period, end of story. And if we spent more time getting better at that, everything else we've talked about today, we would do better.
Jeff Dudan (48:53.344)
You have just answered my unasked question, which was if you had one sentence to make an impact in somebody's life, what would it be? And I think you just answered that. Being present is the secret of life. There's only one last thing I wanna just click on and then we'll wrap this up. But you have an article that says miracles aren't rare. And in the article, you took a picture.
Bruce Kasanoff (49:02.378)
Be present. Be present. Now.
Miracles Aren’t Rare—We’re Just Not Paying Attention
Jeff Dudan (49:19.432)
from the ocean or a boat maybe and you were looking at some buildings in the background on the shoreline and Then it wasn't until you looked at the picture later that you saw that there was orcas Swimming in the ocean in front of you and I think your point was is that you know There's miracles happening all of us all around us, but we're just not paying close enough attention to to to see them Any other comments on that?
Bruce Kasanoff (49:39.778)
Yeah.
Bruce Kasanoff (49:44.758)
Yeah, well, I know he's socially inappropriate these days, but Louis CK had a comedy routine that he said, people get like pissed off because it's like your plane's going to be two minutes late. You're in a tin can 30,000 feet above the ocean and you're flying. You know what I mean? Seriously. I think everything in our lives is a miracle. It's like
Jeff Dudan (50:04.815)
Yeah.
Bruce Kasanoff (50:13.154)
How are you and I talking? There are no wires connecting us. How are we talking? I don't know 10 people who can explain how that works. Well, that's easy. It's wireless. How is that different than telepathy? The telepathy is a miracle, and this podcast is not. No, this podcast is a miracle. The fact that we can do this, it's all a miracle. And this is a great point to close on, which is that you can choose to think nothing's a miracle.
or you can choose to think everything's a miracle. And if you think everything's a miracle, you're gonna go through life happy because you're gonna think, oh, look at that, look at that, look at that. It was a pleasure to talk to you. I'm like, I can't believe we could talk. How do we find each other? It's a miracle. That's a much better way to live.
Jeff Dudan (50:59.748)
Oh man, it is perspective is everything. And I really appreciate that. And I really appreciate it this time. This has been rich and exciting and powerful for me, Bruce. I really appreciate it.
Bruce Kasanoff (51:12.318)
Likewise, and thank you so much for reaching out, and it's been fun to talk to you. I gotta read your book now, or actually your book.
Jeff Dudan (51:17.516)
Yeah, did I get you one out yet or is it on the way? It's okay. I'll get it out there. So I know that you're looking for client number 16 because I'm gonna be number 15. So that spot's already taken, but how can people reach you?
Bruce Kasanoff (51:19.794)
No, no, please do. No, I loved it. Thank you.
Bruce Kasanoff (51:34.186)
Kazanoff.com, K-A-S-A-N-O-F-F, fastest way to get me or Google me on LinkedIn. Is that legal to say Google me on LinkedIn? I don't know. Yep.
Jeff Dudan (51:46.769)
I don't know. It works. It works. Google will get you everywhere. Well, thank you again for investing the time with us today, Bruce. It's been wonderful. And as always, this podcast is brought to you by Homefront Brands. And we are delivering enterprise-level solutions to local business owners out there on the Homefront where it counts. So if any of this sounds interesting to you, and you're ready to start your next chapter of greatness, reach out to me today on the Homefront.
Jeff Duden, HomefrontBranch.com. I'll be looking for you here. Thanks, Bruce. All right.
Bruce Kasanoff (52:18.19)
Thank you.
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